Is he afraid of me leaving?

First of all, I'm definitely afraid of you leaving, but I'm more concerned about your performance.

He cares about your family affairs because he cares about you, whether you will go back, how long you will go back, whether you will go back and so on. This is often a sign of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, that is, a sense of insecurity. In fact, on the other hand, he thinks he loves you, so he is afraid that you will leave and take on everything without consulting him. He should really want to integrate into your world and experience life with you.

Communication is always an important part in the process of getting along with each other. Once again, communicating at the first time is also part of increasing mutual security.