What do you mean, a good marriage is made in earnest, and a good couple is born?

Moral: A happy marriage is the fate of a previous life, and a good spouse is predestined.

A good marriage is made after a long time, and a good couple is born.

Source: Qingcheng Yun Sheng's "Youth Pai Qionglin Marriage"

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A good marriage is made after a long time, and a good couple is born.

Jian Xiu and Ren Ke are both matchmakers; Iceman and the judge in the palm are rumors.

The ceremony will last six weeks, and the two are good.

Women marry women, and men marry women.

Marriage is about wealth and the way to get rid of it; The same surname never gets married, but Zhou Li was born.

Her maiden name is Xu Ying; The bride worships her ancestors, which is called a temple fair.

Wen Cai, under the banner of employment; It is a child's wish for a woman to marry a man.

Hire an instrument to be called a wild goose coin, and a wife to be called a phoenix.

The wedding day is a week, and the person who died is an old man.

The next mining is to collect coins, and the combination is to pay cups.

Holding a towel comb and offering a dustpan and broom are all modest words of women; A good mother teaches, but in Xi, all men are called women.

The green window is the poor woman's room, and the red building is the rich woman's home.

Get married in time, while Mei means that the wedding date has passed.

Yu Gou bit the leaves and got the male moths at the beginning; Embroidered curtains are tied with silk, and Yuan Zhen is blessed with beauty.

Hanwu talked to King Jing about women and wanted to save the gold house. Wei Gu and Yue Lao talked about marriage, only to know that the red rope was tied.

Zhu and Chen got married in a village and China.

Lantian planting jade, the edge of Yongbo; Bao Chuang chose her husband, Fu Lin's daughter.

Crossing the river by magpie bridge, cows meet girls; If you kill a sparrow, you will get a wife.

Ceremony is the beginning of human relations; Poetry Collection is a good poem, so it worships Wang Hua's original work.

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A happy marriage is concluded by the fate of previous lives; The perfect spouse is predestined. Jian Xiu and Ren Ke are nicknames of matchmakers; Iceman and palm judge refer to the rumored matchmaker.

The establishment of marriage has to go through six comprehensive ceremonies, so that two surnames can be combined into a happy marriage. When a woman marries, she is called back, and when a man marries, she is called married.

Marriage by wealth is a foolish behavior of barbarians. Since the Zhou Dynasty, people with the same surname have not married.

The woman received a dowry, called Xu Ying; When the bride first enters the house, she goes to the temple to worship her ancestors, which is called the temple fair. Asking names and receiving gifts are all etiquette in the Six Rites. Seeking fame and receiving gifts coincides with Chen's auspicious account. When a woman marries a man, she realizes her wish to come to Zipingsu. The gift of employment is called wild goose coin, and the fortune-telling marriage is called Zhan Feng. The wedding day is called a week. If there is a wedding day, set an auspicious day in advance. It is entirely up to the matchmaker to convey the opinions of the two schools.

In ancient weddings, the man gave the woman a wild bird as a dowry, plus other dowry symbolizing auspicious meaning, which was very prosperous; On the wedding night, the bride and groom toast together in the bridal chamber, cut the gourd in half and make a wine glass; The wedding night hosted a banquet to entertain the guests, and the atmosphere was very pleasant.

It is self-deprecating to marry a daughter to serve the toilet and do the sweeping work in person; A skilled female teacher's class and diligent study of the etiquette in the inner room are the virtues of helping her husband and the compliments of men praising their daughters.

The green shadow covers the window, but it is a poor woman; There is a road between the red mansions, which is exaggerated to say that it is a rich family.

Peach blossoms in full bloom are rare and beautiful, with bright colors. Men and women get married in the middle of spring. There are only seven plums left on the plum tree, and only three are left. Unmarried women lament that the auspicious time for marriage has passed.

In the imperial ditch, poems inscribed on red leaves were passed around, and Yu You finally got married with Han, a maid-in-waiting. Holding the red silk thread outside the curtain, Guo was lucky enough to marry a beautiful woman.

When Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was a child, he once said to Jingdi, "If you get Gillian, you must save the golden house." Wei Gu and Yue Lao talked about marriage, only to know that the red line was enough to get married.

Zhu and Chen lived in the same village, and they had a good marriage for generations. Qin Jin and China have been friendly and married for generations.

Lantian planted jade, and Yang Yongbo forged a happy marriage; Tang Gaozu made a blockbuster on the screen and married Dou E, which is a great event in Tang Gaozu. As for the ancient ceremony, it is because marriage is the beginning of human relations and must be correct; The Book of Songs lists the benevolence of a gentleman as the first chapter, just to advocate the basic origin of kingly education.

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An Analysis of the Stories Involved in the Original Text of Marriage in Qionglin

1, Yugou title page

In the Tang Dynasty, Yu You once found a leaf in the ditch of the palace with a poem inscribed by a maid-in-waiting, so Yu You also wrote a poem on the leaf, and then let the leaf float back to the palace, which happened to be picked up by the woman again. Later, the emperor married the maid-in-waiting, and chatted with the married maid-in-waiting, only to know that this woman was the maid-in-waiting who wrote poems to each other. Embroidered cord: Zhang, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, wanted Jingzhou secretariat Guo to be his son-in-law, so he said to Guo, "I have five daughters, each holding a silk curtain. Whoever you want to hold one, let her marry you." Guo thus got his third daughter. Later, it refers to promoting marriage by matchmaking or matchmaking.

2. Wei Gu and Yue Lao talk about marriage.

Wei Gu, a native of the Tang Dynasty, is said to have crossed Song Cheng when he was young. He saw an old man sitting on the floor in the moonlight, turning over a book, with a big bag full of red ropes beside him. As long as they are tied to the feet of both men and women, no matter whether they are enemies, the disparity between the rich and the poor or living far apart, they are destined to become husband and wife. Later, The Old Man under the Moon was regarded as body double, the matchmaker.

3, Bao Chuang chooses a husband

In order to choose a son-in-law for Li, a dark window was opened on the wall. Every time a disciple visited, she asked her six daughters to watch under the window and choose a son-in-law.

Step 4 take pictures of sparrows

The daughter of Dou Yi in Sui Dynasty was outstanding in talent and appearance. Shawn Dou thinks that a daughter can't just marry someone else. So Dou Emei drew two peacocks on the screen, and agreed that whoever shot the peacock in the eye would give his daughter to him. Tang Gaozu's two arrows hit one eye each, so he married his daughter, the later Queen Dou. Later, it was used to describe choosing a husband or proposing marriage.

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