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Interpersonal communication is a concern of many people, and it is also a problem that many people need to learn to face. There's so much to say. The following is for reference only and I hope it will help you:

There is a day behind the world, and there are people in the world, indifferent to Zhi Ming, quiet and far-reaching. When others treat you as a leader, don't treat yourself as a leader. When others don't treat you as a leader, you must treat yourself as a leader. Power is temporary, money is external, the body is your own, and life is long.

Keep your promise. If you plant actions, you will reap habits; If you plant habits, you will gain character; Plant character and reap fate-habit makes man.

Treat yourself as others-reduce pain and ecstasy, treat others as yourself-sympathize with misfortune, understand needs, treat others as others-respect independence, do not infringe others, treat yourself as yourself-cherish yourself and live happily. Being able to know others is a kind of wisdom, being known by others is a kind of happiness, and being able to know yourself as a saint.

People are people, you don't have to be human. The world is the world, so there is no need to be careful. Three realms of life: seeing mountains is mountains and seeing water is water-the beginning of life; Looking at mountains is not mountains, and looking at water is not water-people reach middle age; See mountains or mountains, water or water-return to nature.

Damage the personality of others, be happy for a while, and hurt your body for a lifetime. Whole life is interdependent. Everything in the world depends on another thing. Learn to be grateful. Grateful for the protection of nature, grateful for the upbringing of parents, grateful for the stability of society, grateful for the sweetness of food, grateful for the warmth of clothes, grateful for flowers and plants, grateful for adversity.

One hurts the body and the other hurts the feelings. Life and death are equal-crying and not crying. Be careful that you are reluctant to leave, while others have made up their minds. Life depends on three mountains: Mount Putuo in Jinggangshan and Babaoshan. Take a step back and be calm. If you complain too much, be careful.

If you talk too much, you lose. silence is golden. Listening is a kind of wisdom, a kind of accomplishment, a kind of respect and a kind of spiritual communication. Calm is a state of mind and a kind of maturity.

Spreading beauty and harvesting happiness, appearance is a kind of mood and appearance is a kind of strength. While examining beauty by yourself, let others appreciate beauty and do spiritual yoga-adjustment, cultivation and transcendence.

Helping others is noble, understanding people is open-minded, tolerating people is a virtue, serving people is fun, the full moon is a poem, the moon is a flower, it is spring to look up, and autumn to bow down.

Sympathy for the weak is a virtue, a realm, a kind of harmony, and mental health can be healthy. If a person has measurement, he will have more temperament. A person with temperament will be more popular. When a person has popularity, he will have more careers, accumulate good deeds and cultivate morality.

42 things you will learn gradually.

22 tricks, 24 mentality, 50 sad words, 73 etiquette, 20 learn to grow!

See through, but don't say through. A lot of things, as long as you know, there is no need to say. If you are happy, just smile and let everyone know. Sad, just pretend nothing happened. Be tolerant of others without violating the principle, help if you can, and don't push it away. It's most important to leave a way out for people. No matter who, no matter what, no matter what makes you happy, you will be with them. What makes you unhappy, you leave him. Without conditions, you should leave him if you create conditions. Don't always pour out your difficulties in front of others and expose your vulnerability. Nothing is perfect, and no one is perfect. The key is to know what you want. If you get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing. When two people make mistakes at the same time, the one who stands up and bears is called tolerance, and the debt owed by the other party will be paid back sooner or later. People who don't like it can respond with a silent smile; The person you like, that's casual, because your love will be unstoppable, unstoppable. Don't be a hedgehog. If you don't make enemies with others, you won't make enemies with others. No one will stay with anyone for a lifetime. Some things don't need to be remembered. While learning to compromise, we should also adhere to our most basic principles. Don't stop learning. No matter what you learn, language, cooking, all kinds of skills. Money is very important, but you can't rely on men or parents. You must maintain a certain ability to make money. Don't overestimate your strength in the group, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun will still rise without you. You can forget the past, but you must let go. No matter what choice you make, don't regret it, because regret won't help. Don't say something radical because of impulse. Don't make promises easily. The promise you can't make is worse than not making a promise. Don't think there will be love if you don't understand. When we don't understand, we just like it, but we can't reach love. When each other's shortcomings are exposed, many times this love will end. It is best to speak directly, and frankness is better than hypocrisy. Be nice to yourself. Don't think about anything when you are in a bad mood. Go eat what you like. But don't drink. Don't forget to smile, don't forget troubles, don't forget bitterness, don't forget fatigue, don't forget to love yourself when you succeed, don't forget when you fail in the past, and don't forget that there is a future regardless of winning or losing. Life is not a one-way street, you can turn around. Tears and sweat are similar in composition; But the former can only get you sympathy. The latter can win you success. Aging is a compulsory course in life. Maturity is an elective course based on exercise. Learn to be healthy and adapt to it, learn to survive, learn to give up, and be able to withstand loneliness and temptation. When everyone keeps a low profile, you can choose a high profile, but you can't go out of tune. Learning to forget is the technology of life. Learning to smile is the art of life. Laziness consumes the body more than hard work. The best way to realize your dream is to wake up. Philosophers are carefree and wise men are always happy. I don't want to have it, because I love it, but I love what I can't lose: self-control, calmness, hope and confidence.

I thought the bird couldn't fly over the sea because it didn't have the courage to fly over the sea. Ten years later, I discovered that it was not the birds that could not fly, but the other side of the sea, and there was no waiting. ...

I decided not to cry on the day you left. I closed my eyes against the wind and tried not to blink. ...

5. The wood said to the fire, "Hold me"! The fire embraced the wood, and the wood smiled and turned to ashes! The fire cried! Tears put out their own ... wood loves fire and is doomed to be burned.

7. I really love you. I closed my eyes and thought I could forget, but the tears I shed didn't deceive myself. ...

8. I cried on the way home, and my tears collapsed again. I can't do anything to walk like this, and I can't be proud and extravagant anymore. What else can I say? What else can I do? I hope you can hear me, because I love you and let you go.

10. mine is mine after all. I am your passer-by after all. You never loved me. Nothing is destined to happen between you and me. No matter how I cross, no matter how much I want to be close to you, you will still leave me. I miss you, miss you and see you.

The happiness on the face can be seen by others. Who can feel the pain inside me?

12. You can't be friends after breaking up because you hurt each other. We can't be enemies. Because of our deep love for each other, we became the most familiar strangers.

13. Some people meet like meteors. In an instant, there was an enviable spark, but it was destined to pass by in a hurry.

14. Time will slowly precipitate, and some people will gradually blur in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs to be realized by yourself.

15. I can feel your heartache. You have unspeakable helplessness ... but you act as if you don't care. The more you do this, the worse I feel.

16. Sometimes, it is for love that you quietly avoid it. What you avoid is the figure, but what you can't avoid is the silent feelings.

17. Love is precious until every minute. Many people don't know how to cherish what they have. They didn't find it until they lost it. In fact, what they are familiar with is the most precious.

18. Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury. Cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves.

19. You left with all my love, just a farewell. I looked at your back with tears in my eyes. I really want to hug you for the last time and say "I love you" to you again.

20. The air soaked by rain is tired and sad, and the fairy tales in memory have slowly melted. Since love, why not say it? Some things have been lost, and now they can never come back!

22. Falling in love is a feeling. When this feeling is gone, I am still forcing myself. This is called responsibility! Breaking up is courage! When this courage is gone, I am still encouraging myself. This is called tragic! -

23. Life is endless and lonely. Loneliness is the eternal theme of love. I am alone with my shadow. It said it had something to say to me. It says it misses you very much. It turns out that my shadow and I are thinking about you.

24. A tragedy has just been staged on the other side of perfection. All the blood and tears gave birth to a bud in the withered thorns, which will experience seven thunderstorms and then bloom in the humid air. ...

The fish took the bait, because it fell in love with the fisherman, and it was willing to make the fisherman smile with its own life. ...

I like to leave my mark on you, but I never remember that you never belonged to me. ...

If one day, I don't like you anymore, will my life be as decadent as before … I don't want to live like that anymore, so please, at least like me before I give up on you …

27. In fact, I have been waiting for you. When you lean on my shoulder and tell me, will one day, your tenderness belongs to me, and I won't make you sad or cry again!

28. If you treat me like a kite, either let me go or take me home. Don't bind me with an invisible emotion, it will break my heart.

29. It is snowing outside the window. I made a cup of coffee and held it until it got cold, and then I knew I was thinking about you again. How can you understand my expectations!

30. The first time I cried because you weren't there, the first time I smiled because I met you, and the first time I laughed because I couldn't have you!

3 1. Time is like a river. The left bank is an unforgettable memory, and the right bank is a youthful time worth grasping. Flowing quickly in the middle, it is a faint youth sadness. There are many beautiful things in the world, but not many really belong to you. Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, the honor and disgrace are not surprised. Looking up at the sky, I have no intention of staying, and I have no intention of staying. In this tangled secular world, it is also a realm to learn to treat everything around you with a normal heart.

32. There are too many helplessness in our life, which we can't change and can't change. To make matters worse, we have lost the idea of change. ...

33. Look at the flowers in front of the court, don't be surprised by honor or disgrace, look at the clouds in the sky, and have no intention of staying.

In this chaotic secular world, it is also a realm to learn to treat everything around you with a normal heart.

35. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't stick to. ...

36. A simple and quiet life is actually not happy, so I only embrace the present, and the lasting feeling is not happy at all, so I only believe in the present.

37. Some losses are doomed, and some predestinations will never bear fruit. Love a person, you don't necessarily have it. If you have someone, you must love her well. ...

38. My heart is dead, my tears have dried up, and I can't bear to look back. I wake up, but I can't feel my feelings, and I can't shake the past. It is also empty and real. I love and hate. Leaves fall silently and flowers hurt my health. The only way is to look for it, cold and desolate, sad and miserable; Helpless, forbearing, forbearing; One day both will end, and this endless sadness will last forever.

39. Nothing in the world is eternal. If it flows, it flows away; If it exists, it will dry up; If it grows, it will wither slowly.

40. The pain of being a woman: When she has a physical relationship with the man she loves, she will naturally regard this relationship as an eternity, but men are different. They may only think that this is another interpretation of lifestyle. As the book says, it is better to keep a simple relationship between men and women before they make a commitment to get married, otherwise, there is really no time to turn back. If you are unhappy, if you are unhappy, let go; If you can't let go, it will be painful.

42. Life is only a few decades. Don't leave any regrets for yourself. Smile happily. Cry if you want, and love when you should. There is no point in suppressing yourself. There are two kinds of anguish in life, one is that the desire is not satisfied, and the other is that the desire is satisfied.

43. The so-called flower heart is the mood of having love and bread and wanting to eat cake; The so-called affair is to sneak out of the besieged city and fall into a trap; Romance means that when you buy cabbage for your wife, you will bring back a rose. The so-called kitchen is in front of the red carpet when you get married. ...

I dare not say, because I am timid, because if you refuse, I will never see you again. I would rather love you silently and not let you know until, until you fall into the arms of others!

45. A person thinks about things and wants to find someone to accompany him. A person loses himself. I don't know what to chase.

46. The world is so imperfect. What you want, you have to lose.

47. In love, emotionally, when you want to conquer each other, you have actually been conquered by each other to a certain extent. First, the attraction of the other party to you, and then your desire to conquer the other party.

48. I put down my dignity, personality and stubbornness just because I can't let you go.

49. If you are in love, don't miss the opportunity easily. Reckless, may make you regret for a while; Cowardice may make you regret it all your life.

50. Life without love is incomplete, and love without pain is not profound. Love enriches life, and pain sublimates love.

Basic manners of people (you are guaranteed to learn a lot)

You should at least be able to answer when others are talking to you. You can't say the last sentence, you don't have the next sentence, or you can just say ah, right.

5. Poor sleep can make people incoherent, unresponsive and have prominent dark circles.

6. When others release "poisonous gas", don't avoid or fan in disgust and pretend as if nothing has happened.

7. When reprimanded by the leader, don't bow your head, look directly at the leader and accept the criticism with a smile, and the fire of the leader will slowly go out, otherwise the leader will add fuel to the fire.

26. It is better for a man to take time to keep himself.

28. When serving others rice or tea, if there is a person in the middle, don't pass in front of others, but bypass them from behind.

32. Touch glasses with others on the wine table. Your cup must be lower than the other person's, especially when the other person is an elder or leader.

34. If you ask others, they won't answer you. Don't keep asking.

When someone criticizes you, even if he is wrong, don't refute it first, and then explain it when everyone calms down.

38. Enough is enough, whether it is eating your favorite food or losing your temper.

39. After dinner at a friend's house, take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table-the host has been cooking very hard and can't let the host clean up afterwards.

40. You will meet all kinds of people in your life. You can't get along well with everyone, but one thing is universal: how you treat others, others will treat you.

46. There is no end to learning, not only books, but also how to treat people. This society is far more complicated than you think.

47. Don't discuss the right and wrong of your boss or other colleagues with your colleagues. Your careless words are likely to be evidence that others attacked you.

5 1. I have real friends, but I wonder if you are lucky enough to meet them. Don't deny it whether you meet it or not. Don't calculate others, especially the person you like. Don't use means to get the person you like.

52. The bravest thing is to love life after knowing the truth. Don't be afraid of cheating, but you should know that there are cheating in the world.

53. When borrowing money, you should have a bottom in mind, that is, you should think that the money will not come back. Therefore, the money you lend should always be within the range of losses you can bear. Within the tolerable amount, even if I can't come back, I am prepared. You can't borrow the amount you can't afford to lose.

54. It is best not to have economic exchanges between girlfriends unless you are too poor to eat. Many valuable friendships have been destroyed by money.

58. The first sentence on the phone must be "Hello"; Wait until someone else dies.

60. Don't spit and throw things everywhere. If there is no trash can, take it home and throw it in the trash can.

63. Don't let others know what you really think. Laugh in front of others and cry alone.

72. Be responsible for your actions, don't blame others, think about whether you should do it before you do it, and learn to solve problems yourself.

Learn to put affection first, friendship second, and love is out of reach. Not good or bad, not cocky, not staring at other people's feet. 5. Learn to keep the person you like in your heart, like it silently, and don't need to publicize your feelings. It's simple to surprise others and touch a person on a special festival. Let her (him) know that you have her (him) position in your heart and learn to plan your life. What you have won is more worth cherishing. Learn not to care, forget some unpleasantness, maybe you will be happier and learn to keep a diary. Our life is not very long. Writing it down can help you to remember.

If you can afford it, you can let go. Don't procrastinate when it's time to let go. Tell yourself, learn to love yourself, and you will live well …

1. No matter what happens, you should first think about whether you have done something wrong. If you are right (that's impossible), put yourself in the other person's shoes and feel their feelings. Adapt yourself to the environment, because the environment will never adapt to you. Even if it is a very, very painful process. Be generous. If you are not generous, learn to be generous. If generosity really hurts you, pretend to be generous Low-key, low-key, low-key again (even lower-key than temporary workers, maybe you are not as good as temporary workers for several years in others' eyes). Be sweet, don't be stingy with your cheers. (will praise people. A good compliment will make people feel very happy, but don't go too far to disgust them. ) If you think your work is going well recently, be careful. Be polite. Look each other in the eye when you say hello. When communicating with older people, you should call them elders, because you are the real junior. Don't take others' kindness for granted, but be grateful.

1 1. Be punctual, but don't expect others to be punctual. Believe in promises, but don't promise easily. Don't always keep others' promises to you in mind and believe them. Don't speak ill of another colleague behind his back. Insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties. If someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, smile. Avoid open opposition with colleagues (including open opposition, which is even more undesirable). Right things not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.

2 1. Always check whether you are conceited, proud and look down on others. Patience is a compulsory course in life. Even without the cooperation and help of others, you are brilliant. Be patient with life, some people will fail this course all their lives. When you are new to a place, don't rush into any circle. Long enough, your circle will automatically accept you. Have a normal heart. No big deal. Think bad of good things, and think good of bad things. Try not to have an office romance. If you can't avoid it, avoid any form of physical contact in the office, including eye contact. You can kiss up (this is one of the important ways to communicate with your immediate supervisor), but be careful not to get your hands dirty. Qualification is very important. Don't play tricks with the old guys, or you will die an ugly death. If you lead a team, when summing up your work, you should take all the mistakes on yourself and all the credit on your subordinates. Remember to praise subordinates in time when the boss and subordinates are present at the same time. When criticizing people, it must be done only by the two of you.

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Interpersonal relationship is a very important topic in career, especially for professionals in large companies and enterprises, good interpersonal relationship is a necessary condition for comfortable work and peace of mind. Today's graduates, mostly only children, have just come out of school and have a strong sense of self. When they come to a complex social environment, they should adjust their coordinates in interpersonal relationships.

Any boss (including department head, project manager and management representative) has at least some advantages in this position. Their rich work experience and general strategies in dealing with people are worth learning from, and we should respect their wonderful past and impressive performance. But every boss is not perfect. Therefore, we don't have to listen to the boss's orders at work, but we should also remember that giving advice to the boss is only a small part of our work, and striving to improve, improve and move to a new height is the ultimate goal. To persuade your boss to accept your point of view, you should be polite and measured in an atmosphere of respect. However, before asking questions and opinions, you must come up with a detailed information plan that can convince the other party.

Working in an office, I spend a long time with my colleagues and have a certain understanding of each other's hobbies and living conditions. As colleagues, we have no reason to expect others to serve us faithfully. Once misunderstandings and disputes occur, we must think of others from another angle, stand in the other side's position, understand their situation, and never get emotional and reveal their privacy. Any behind-the-scenes comments and criticisms will eventually destroy their generous image in the process of belittling each other and be resisted by others. At the same time, we should have sincere enthusiasm for our work and choose careful support for our colleagues. Support is to accept other people's views and ideas. Blind support can only lead to blind obedience, and it will also breed suspicion of cliques and affect the trust in the company's decision-making level.

As the saying goes: if a tree moves, it will die; if a person moves, it will live. In the modern competitive society, the iron rice bowl no longer exists, and it is very unlikely that a person will spend his life in the same unit. Therefore, it is necessary to make more friends. As the saying goes, many friends make the road easy. Therefore, it is more meaningful to hang up a phone call, write a letter or send an email to a friend in your spare time, even if it is only a few words, and friends will appreciate it.

I have a friend who is depressed in a big company. After learning about it, my friend invited him to try a slightly smaller enterprise. As a result, he was promoted to department head within half a year, which is the advantage of making friends. A phone call, a greeting, drew a friend's heart closer. Such a good friend can have a good chance not to take care of you first?

In work and life, there are only differences in positions, but they are all equal in personality. In front of employees and subordinates, we are just a leader, and there is no great glory and pride. Helping subordinates is actually helping yourself, because the better the enthusiasm of employees, the better the work will be done, and you will gain more respect and establish an enlightened image.

Listening can better understand the mood of subordinates and understand the situation at work, providing detailed basis for accurate feedback and adjustment of management methods. The head of a famous American company once said: When there is a dispute between managers and subordinates, the leaders are impatient to listen to instructions, so that most subordinates don't listen to instructions, my first thought is to replace the department manager.

In our working life, competitors are everywhere. Many people defend their competitors everywhere, and what's more, they will "step on one foot with a knife" behind their backs. This extreme will only widen the gap between them and create a tense atmosphere, which is undoubtedly harmful to work. In fact, on the whole, everyone's work is very important, and everyone has a lovely flash. When you surpass your opponent, there is no need to despise others, and others are also seeking progress; People are above you, and you don't have to make things difficult, because work is the result of everyone's joint efforts. "No one can be less." No matter how embarrassed your opponent is, don't compete with him, gently grin, and calm down and do your job first! Maybe he is still complaining, and you have done well. Grinning, not only has a generous and open-minded inclusive style, but also has an open-minded good mood. Are you still worried about losing? Maybe your opponent has surrendered to you in his heart. . .

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I gradually realized that one should be kind to oneself, because few people really care about you, and they may not be around when something happens. So take care of yourself.

04. I slowly realize that what is really good to a person may not necessarily be rewarded, and those you ignore may often value you the most.

05. Slowly, I understand that many things can be met but not sought, and many things can only be owned once.

06. I gradually understand that love is not necessarily sincere, but may be a relationship of interest or a comparison mentality.

07. I gradually learned not to argue with others, because it is fruitless, no matter who is right or wrong.

08. I have come to understand that many times when you encounter unhappy things, don't be eager for others' sympathy. Most people will react coldly to this. That will make people look down on it even more,

09. I gradually realized that there are many things that don't belong to you. If you work hard, you will be sent by heaven.

10. I gradually realized that everything I did might be meaningless, but everything I did felt like a memory.

12. It's only slowly that I know that many former people will become unrecognizable, but please keep those memories.

13. I gradually realized that from now on, you should catch everyone you can, give up those you can't keep, and don't lose a group of people just because you want to keep some people.

14. I gradually realized that I must care about my self-esteem, but your self-esteem is nothing in the eyes of others.

15. I gradually learned not to lose my temper with people around me when I am in a bad mood. I hope they will forgive you. They're not your parents. Now you can understand how important your parents are to you.

16. I gradually realized that even if someone doesn't care about emotions, you should firmly believe that the feelings between people may make everything impossible to surpass, but remember, that is only possible.

18. I gradually realized that I would meet many people or things I don't like, but that has nothing to do with you. Others can do whatever they want. Don't be angry with you. Not worth it.

20. I gradually realized that two people who are together every day are not necessarily friends, but may be nothing.

2 1. I gradually realized that I would encounter many temptations. No matter what others do, you are you, and you have your principles and boundaries.

22. It is only slowly known that someone will hate you or have a hard time with you, but he can do whatever he wants. We should be generous and don't care about villains, but only if you are right.

23. Slowly, I understand that many people can't understand the friendship between men and women. If they are together, they must be lovers. If you are not lovers, you must not be together.

24. I gradually realized that I should study hard, because Feng Maoling Jiao is the one who can cope with the exam subjects by cleverness.

25. I slowly realized that leisure was so boring that I didn't feel the enrichment of middle school at all.

26. I gradually understand that mobile phones are used when others have something to talk to you about, not to communicate feelings.

27. I gradually realized that I can not treat everyone as a friend, but I must never treat one person as an enemy, at least as a classmate.

28. I gradually understand that if you can afford to play, don't play what you can't afford, or you won't lose anything.

29. Gradually realize that happiness often comes from memories, while pain often comes from the gap between memories and reality.

30. I gradually realized that those hip-hop fights were just a pastime, and smoking and fighting in the past were even more ignorant.

3 1. I gradually realized that there are many people whose ideas and practices are beyond your understanding, or you have no idea what they are thinking. Don't ponder or guess there, it will make you very tired. Since people want to keep it mysterious, let them keep it. You are not a fortune teller.

32. I gradually learned not to think too highly of myself. There is no absolute victory or absolute failure.

33. I gradually realized that there are many unfairness in life. You must face it squarely and believe in the strength and eyes of the masses.

34. Slowly, I understand that brotherhood is sometimes not as beautiful as I imagined. Only by giving your heart can you be treated sincerely by others.

35. I slowly realized that if some people keep calculating, they will eventually lose miserably, so keep a peaceful heart!

36. I gradually realized that some things are not what I want, but some things must be done, which is also a special training for myself.

37. I gradually realized that the time spent together between two people is still very important.

38. Only then do you gradually realize the gap between realistic concepts, and you must adapt to keep up with the rhythm of life!

39. Only slowly did I realize that I was growing up. I was no longer a child and adapted to all the growth.

It is only slowly that I know the true meaning of leaving a line for those who meet in the future. There are no eternal enemies, only eternal friends. Don't do anything too badly, the end of things is spoken with your mouth.

4 1. Just slowly realize that no matter how good a friend is, no matter how good you play, you may lose it, but we still have to be optimistic. If you really take him (her) as a friend, you should bless him (her). Look ahead! Do what you have to do.

I gradually realized that I was slowly accepting this society.