There is a saying in the countryside that men account for 38% and women account for 38% and must be widows. What does that mean?

In the former countryside, there were indeed many proverbs about men and women, and often these proverbs had some feudal superstitions. And "men account for 38 are scholars, and women account for 38 will be widowed" is one of the more representative ones. ?

1. Men who account for 38 are scholars, and women who account for 38 will be rare.

In fact, literally, we can probably understand that this sentence is actually friendly to the man and a little extreme to the woman. There have always been different opinions on the interpretation of this sentence. One view is that if a boy is born in the third eighth of a month, he is likely to be possessed by satellites in the sky. We all know that Wen Quxing is very learned. Therefore, boys born on this date are usually considered as future scholars.

Similarly, for girls, if a girl is born in the third eighth of a month, then she is likely to cause some harm to her future husband, that is, girls in our popular sense are likely to become widows for this reason. The difference between another statement and the first statement is that they have different definitions of this "March 8th Festival". In the second statement, this "March 8" refers to a person's date of birth with a Chinese character, and then through this calculation, it corresponds to the above two different fates.

2. Should we believe these rural stories?

In fact, if you look at these so-called explanations carefully, you will know that there is no theoretical basis at all, and you even want to laugh. Whether a person's fate is good or bad is mostly in our own hands. Although each of us can't control our origins, we all treat our acquired efforts fairly, and we can all change our destiny through our own silent efforts. The key is whether you are willing to keep taking action for this goal. So in general, like these rural proverbs, we can regard them as a message. Don't take them seriously, let alone affect our lives because of these things.