Love stories of the lion woman and Scorpio man, and the lion woman and Scorpio man.

Standing with you as the image of a tree.

Roots, close to the ground,

Leaves, touching in the clouds.

I have always liked Shu Ting's To Oak, which describes my ideal love. During the epidemic, I had the opportunity to get along with my husband day and night, and found that after more than ten years, our roots were really rooted in the ground. At the beginning of the breeze, our leaves danced lightly in the clouds, accompanied by birds whispering; In the storm, our branches support each other and the leaf crowns cover each other.

Looking back on these years of loving and knowing each other, I find that both the domineering lion and the ruthless scorpion have put away the sharpest claws and claws for each other, but the quarrel between them is still there.

Falling in love: your reason, my enthusiasm, the inexplicable tacit understanding between lions and scorpions. I am a lion girl, he is a Scorpio man, and we are college classmates.

After a long time, he lamented that on the night when we met freshman, when we played games together, we had noticed that crazy me. For Scorpio, the ability to blend in with strangers so quickly is incredible. The lion girl who had a heart-to-heart conversation before we met looks like an alien. In Scorpio's world, she will only attack after being dormant for a long time, silently observing for a long time and confirming that she is 100% safe.

"What did you observe?"

Scorpio replied in disgust: "Although it looks warm on the surface, you are actually very insecure inside. The stupidest thing is that I am particularly worried that I don't give enough love to others! Obviously, you are the most important. Why are you stupid enough to spend so much time and energy doing so many things for others? Probably because you are too proud to admit defeat! "

Ah, this is really a stubborn Scorpio! What he said about me was not about himself.

In the eyes of the lion girl, Scorpio looks extremely cold and always seems to be out of group. In fact, he is particularly eager to be noticed, especially hoping that someone will pull him into the group. Isn't this a sign of excessive self-esteem?

We get to know each other gradually by playing free morning badminton together every week and then having breakfast together. At that time, there was a small group playing together, and we were always two persistent people.

After a long time, Scorpio said faintly, "I wouldn't get up so early if I didn't play ball and have breakfast with you every week!" " Your skills are so bad ... "

But the indifferent Scorpio and the enthusiastic lion came together like this!

Why did the lion choose this way?

Probably completely attracted by Scorpio's unique personality. Before they were together, Scorpio was cold, wise, quick-thinking, sharp-eyed, very organized and planned, and always thought for a long time in the eyes of the lion girl. These characteristics are very desirable for the lion girl. A lion who is too enthusiastic is often a little reckless and emotionally prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. In contrast, he prefers someone to cool himself down or lead his own direction.

Accompanying: Your poisonous tail, my claws and the lion and scorpion only converge for each other, and the painting style will be different immediately. Scorpio, who once cherished words like gold, now wants to become a lion girl with chewing gum, and his strong possessiveness is immediately revealed.

In astrology, many people will mention that Scorpio seems heartless, but in fact it is affectionate. They tend to be loyal and dedicated to the people they like. Similarly, they also ask each other to be single-minded and never allow betrayal. People who have been stung by scorpions are likely to show a half-hearted sense of freedom in this relationship, making Scorpio feel unsafe. My Scorpio man will declare his "sovereignty" everywhere, and all class reunions and social networks will be marked with his declaration of love, as if I were already his property.

The enthusiastic lion girl is relatively "fraternity", and that kind of activity always wants to illuminate more people, so participating in community activities and student unions naturally encroaches on a lot of spare time. In Scorpio's view, of course all your time should belong to me. If you want to shine, you just need to warm me.

As a result, the scorpion man's poisonous tail and the lion woman's claws both turned into spears, trying to pierce each other's shields.

What impressed me most was a class discussion. Because I held a different position from him, I chose someone else's point of view to argue, and he was silent for a long time afterwards. This is our first cold war. For the lioness, silence is a difficult problem, while the silence of another creature, man, is even more incomprehensible. He has no idea what you are angry about. When he said with tears that he didn't like being opposed by the person he liked, I realized that for Scorpio, that kind of pure love is beyond doubt.

Like being controlled by your mind? Yes, falling in love with Scorpio is like a kind of practice. You need to exercise your patience, empathy and communication skills. It's not that he can't accept objections, but that you should communicate with him in a way that he can hear. For a Scorpio who loves you enough, your opinion will always be heard in your heart.

The longer we spend together, the better we will know each other. At the beginning, the places that attracted each other gradually became our * * * same advantages, while the essence that had been concealed before gradually became the common ground of each other with the gradual exposure and excavation.

We all left home early to study, and the collective life of accommodation made us independent very early; We all like to look around and feel the customs of different places, so we have a strong tolerance for many different people and different opinions. We all have a beautiful vision and great ambition for the future. In order to realize bigger dreams, we are willing to sacrifice our personal comfort. Our strong self-esteem does not allow us to give up easily. Our seriousness and loyalty have won us many sincere friends.

In this way, the love between the lion girl and Scorpio man gradually began to heat up, and even if they are bored together every day, they will not feel bored.

Accompany each other: after a year in a different place, we made another choice. Like many campus romances, our love has been tested in different places. At that time, I chose to go north, and he chose to go south for a year. In my opinion, this year is the most crucial year in our relationship, not only because of the test of time and space, but also because we have both experienced self-transformation.

Famous family therapists Carl Whitaker and Augustus Napier discussed the secret of long-term marriage in Family on Hot Toes. They thought:

The key is whether two people have experienced some mental space training when they get married; In this process, they fight against life alone, with no one to rely on but themselves, and find that they can overcome the fear of loneliness. In forbearance, an individual gains considerable self-confidence, self-awareness and self-loyalty, which are prerequisites for establishing a stable relationship with another person. Even if I experienced some misfortunes in my childhood, this independent day can still be regarded as "the handling of life experience."

It was that year when we parted, which gave us the opportunity to examine each other's relationship and needs from a distance, and also had the opportunity to experience the height and distance we could reach after parting from each other. Later, when we got engaged, my father-in-law told my parents: these two children are very independent, so we don't have to worry about them at all!

That year was the third year of my work. Apart from emotional separation and fetters, career planning is also a problem that bothers me. After a long period of self-exploration and choice, I finally decided to go south to reunite with him. Many people will think that I have given up my stable job opportunities and rare welfare benefits, as if I have made great sacrifices, but I never think so. I said to him at that time, "I came for you, not for you." Going to the south is my career choice. No matter what happens in the future, whether we are together or not has nothing to do with my decision now. " I don't want to resent him for dragging me into my present life when my future life is not smooth, and I don't like him sacrificing more possibilities because of my arrival.

At that time, we had not decided to settle down, and all the future was still unknown. But after that period of struggle, we have gradually become two strong trees, independent and tenacious.

You have your copper branches and iron stems,

Like a knife, like a sword,

Like halberds,

I have my red flowers,

Like a heavy sigh,

Like a heroic torch,

We share cold waves, storms and lightning;

We like mist, flowing mist and rainbow.

As if we were separated forever,

But they are lifelong dependent.

Dependence: Your world, my universe, the second year after the lion and scorpion reunited hand in hand, and after nine years of long-distance love, we got the certificate and decided to be together on the same day.

Nine, the biggest in China culture, also means "long-term".

In those nine years, we walked through the great rivers and mountains of the motherland together and also went to the west coast of the United States. On the journey, the lion and Scorpio are getting better and better. One person is in charge of planning and the other is in charge of implementation, and we finally became good partners.

Nine years later, we have been to Hongkong, Macau, Taiwan Province, Japan, Singapore and New Zealand ... It has become our consensus to travel long distances at least once a year. In order to dilute the fatigue caused by trivial daily life, we will come to the scene and leave from time to time, and use the small weekend to visit domestic cities.

Your world, my universe, extends infinitely under our feet from now on.

Use your circle of friends written in the 10th anniversary to complete it:

Together, I waited for the sunrise on the grassland and photographed the star track of Yanyuan. We have experienced the first snow in the north and played along the southern coast together. Holding hands for ten years, my heart remains the same: you are still the arrogant teenager who gave up on me in the world, and I am still the girl who doesn't recognize the reality. I still remember you shaking the rain and snow in summer with your watch and laughing at when your research can promote human progress. But thank you, we have walked hand in hand through this period of years when we refused to compromise because of money, house and material, and moved towards enrichment and ideals together.

Finally, I wish everyone in the world meet again after a long separation, everything will be fine, and all shall be well.