Tarot: Do you understand tolerance and help me, or do you think I am too stupid, naive or even ridiculous?

Although you are unreasonable, I really want to talk to you for a long time, because your personality really makes me anxious.

First of all, I still want to emphasize a word, from Bill Gates' advice to all young people before retirement-many people like watching TV dramas, but don't watch them, it's not your life.

When I first saw this sentence, I was deeply touched. I am also a girl who likes watching TV dramas, and I often associate the plots in TV dramas with myself. However, I often get rid of this unrealistic melancholy dream the next day after a night of sweet dreams.

There are many classic words about false dreams, all pointing to one goal-reality.

When dreams come, two things will happen-

1. Dreams are disillusioned like bubbles, leaving a broken dream that cannot be pieced together.

2. Too dreamy mind will bring the reality that people need to face directly into the illusory world, thus indulging in self-emotion and unable to move forward.

From your experience of chatting with me several times, I can see that you are really a romantic child. Although you are an adult, you still can't get rid of immature ideas and childish dreams. This will always be the biggest shackle on your emotional road, and it is not something I can make you make up your mind to overcome with one word.

You always think that childlike innocence can make people more moved, but in fact, not everyone thinks so, even if he is an absolutely realistic person in your mind.

When you are alone and insist on facing the whole world with simple thoughts, you will find the cruelty of this world more deeply than other mature people. This can only make you feel hurt, depressed, miserable, and even want to escape.

But where can you escape?

You have been in this world for a long time. Do you still expect yourself to be in a beautiful world that is warm all over the world?

Don't call me dirty or extreme. When you can't fully understand all aspects of this world, you can't fully integrate into this world. Most of you exist in your own small world.

That's all I have to say now. Let your divination result tell you next. Tarot cards will be more telling.

The first card you draw is the holy grail of inverted 9, which represents your opinion of your opponent-

You will never be satisfied. You always think you get too little from him. You care too much about your own gains and losses, forgetting that love originally needs selfless dedication. Although morality only allows two people to fall in love at the same time, it is selfish from the quantitative level, but the sentence "If you want to get a love, you must pay more love than this" clearly illustrates the problem-

The germination of love is the sweetness sown by both sides; But its germination needs long-term care and gentle efforts from both sides, and always gives the most sincere irrigation, so that the seeds of love can thrive in the warm sunshine.

The whole process is hard, you can complain, but don't overdo it. He, like you, is a person who has given himself for this seed of love. You are equal, and you are not qualified to condemn a person who works as hard as you.

There are indeed many differences between you, and you find it more and more difficult to communicate with him. He often cuts eight parietal bones mercilessly and pours a bucket of cold water from beginning to end when you are immersed in self-fantasy. Makes you feel depressed and helpless.

Yes, you should also know why you chose him. Didn't you know the gap between you? Now that you have fallen in love with him, why not try to get used to him and tolerate him as much as possible? Is it already uncompromising for you?

The second card you draw is anti-cudgel six, which represents your point-

You put a lot of pressure on him, and many times you don't realize the pressure you put on him. In fact, his psychology is very analytical, and he obviously thinks that there is an insurmountable gap between you. Your high expectations for him keep him away, lest he be overwhelmed by your wishes.

He also knows very well that he should not delay your good years, and he should bear the responsibility for the loss of your youth. It is this sense of responsibility that strengthens his confidence that he can't retreat, but at the same time he is afraid of your enthusiastic offensive.

You are so like a child that he dare not take care of you completely.

The urgency and hope revealed in your short message looks so simple and lovely, but it is so ridiculous. Your thoughts and ideas are fragile and pale to him. Few people can take care of your gentle heart. He thinks he can't.

The third card you draw is the reverse holy grail waiter, which represents your current relationship-

The meaning of this card is clear in the first card. You are the leader and main promoter of this relationship. You think if you let go like this, maybe he will leave easily.

Therefore, you are still working hard to promote this passive emotion.

You are tired, but you still don't want to give up.

He seems to be expecting you to let go, but he has irreplaceable responsibility and deep feelings for you. He finally hesitated whether to sell it.

The crux of the problem still comes from yourself. I made it clear in the first paragraph that you should change yourself as soon as possible, even if you really can't, at least you need to hide it.

Don't think this kind of concealment is a kind of deception in disguise, and true love can't accept deception. In fact, this kind of concealment is good for you and him, and it is also the most effective action you can do so far.