How many kinds of etiquette are there in the wedding ceremony, from the discussion of marriage to the completion of marriage? What are they?

Six rites, the wedding ceremony of the old Han nationality. It refers to six manners in the process from marriage negotiation to marriage completion. That is, accept, roll call, Najib, accept, invite and welcome. Nacai means that the man's family asks the matchmaker to propose marriage to the woman's family. After the man's family prepares the gift, the woman's family promises to propose marriage. Asking the name means that the man's family asks the matchmaker to ask the woman's name and date of birth. Naji, that is, after the man retrieved the woman's name and eight characters, he performed divination in the ancestral hall. Zheng Na, also known as Nabi, means that the man's family gives it to the woman's family as a dowry. On the date of invitation, the man chooses the wedding date and prepares gifts to inform the woman's family for approval. At the wedding reception, one or two days before the wedding, the woman gives a dowry and makes the bed, and the groom goes to the woman's house to get married the next day.

Picking means that the man invites an envoy to the woman's house to pick a goose as a gift to show that the man has the intention to get married and ask the woman to pick it. Later generations also called it "media", and The Book of Rites was called "governance", "governance" and "governance" communication. The "basket" is a gift in hand, but it is actually a meeting gift. The gifts used by Nacai are slightly different in different dynasties, but each gift has a certain meaning or symbolic purpose.

Ask the woman's name and then ask the name after the man accepts it. Asking the name means that the man's master prepares a red post and invites an envoy to the woman's house to ask the name and birth age. Na Cai and Wen Ming are sometimes put together. Usually, after the ceremony, the messenger will say to the hostess, "I have been ordered to ask my female name so that I can pray." At this time, the hostess told the messenger her daughter's name and birth before the class, or gave the messenger a book with a red paper cover.

Najib's ceremony is very simple. The man asked the woman's name and birth age and said prayers to her in the ancestral hall. If she gets a good omen, she will invite the original messenger to the woman's house to tell her the result of the prayer. The hostess said that she was lucky, so she dared not "resign". The marriage between the two sides has reached a preliminary agreement. For example, the "marriage newspaper" in the Tang law, the "too detailed post", "blind date" and "inserting hairpin" in the Song Dynasty all belong to Najib.

Na _ is to hire money, first hire money and then get married. Also known as Nabi, people also call it Napin, Overdetermined and Wen Ding. A woman who marries is called a wife, and a woman who marries without paying money or preparing etiquette is called a concubine. Na _ is the key to the success of marriage. After this ceremony, the engagement was completely established. So both men and women regard it as a big deal. From Shu Ren to the son of heaven, the gift of "Na _" cannot be exempted from custom. As for the weight of Na _, it depends on the state of both sides.

Ask the man to choose the wedding date, prepare a gift to tell the woman, and with the consent of the woman, the woman will receive a gift to set the wedding date. The man chooses the wedding date. The average person's wedding date is determined by both men and women, and then the man posts it to the woman as a formal notice. In fact, the wedding date is set by the husband's family, and then the woman's family is informed. Instead of in-laws asking about the wedding date of the woman's family. The reason why it is called "invitation" is all modest words of the ancients.

This is the last procedure of the Six Rites, the most important festival among the Six Rites and the most important festival of the ancients. Kissing is the season when a man goes to a woman's house to greet his new wife. In ancient times, it was mostly in spring. Regarding the greeting time, "the ceremony of marrying a wife in ancient times lasted for a period of fainting." By the Tang dynasty, it had been changed to marry a new wife during the day. The ceremony is the wedding day, and the groom is ordered by his parents to go to the woman's house to get married. When the bride is married, the groom wears a black dress and takes a car with black paint. Someone in front holds a candle as a guide, and two cars (like the car the bride takes) follow him to the woman's house to get married. Arriving at the girl's home, the bride is dressed and waiting in the room with Pamon's hand (commonly known as the hijab). The female father went out to welcome his son-in-law and male guests into the house. The groom looked at the bride's temple, worshipped the goose, got into the bride's car and waited outside the door. When the bride came out, the groom asked her to get on the bus, and the people who saw her off followed. Subsequently, this man and a woman entered the house to pay homage, calling them "worshipping the church". After the wedding reception, the bride and groom put on their dresses and took the candles out of the new house, and the wedding ceremony was completed.