Fate closes a door for you, but it won't open a window for you. Please try to open it yourself.

Fate is like Pandora's box, unfathomable. You never know whether it will fly out of the lucky flower or the storm.

However, no matter how bad the life situation is, we must run in the sun and experience the wind and rain. Tell fate with your positive attitude, and you will never bow to it.

Although it closes a door for you, although it doesn't open a window for you, you will try to open it yourself.

Dong Xiaoyu is 22 years old. He always has a bright smile on his face. No one has ever heard him complain.

But his experience is far beyond what he should bear at his age.

In the first year of high school, my father was admitted to the hospital because of a sudden serious illness. In a few months, the family spent all their savings and was heavily in debt.

In desperation, he had to drop out of school. After everyone's efforts, he finally failed to stop death, and his father died.

Life always goes on. After his mother handled the affairs properly, he began to work. A boy who has just turned 18 years old, with no education and skills, can't find any high-paying job, but he is just an hourly worker in a fast food restaurant or posing as a doll in front of a shopping mall on holidays.

I work part-time at the same time, and my salary is still meager, but I can share my mother's pressure. This is also the only place he feels gratified when he is often tired to doubt his life.

After 3-4 years, he and his mother finally paid off most of their foreign debts, thinking that there would always be some skills in the future. He discussed with his mother, enrolled in a technical training school, and went to school while working.

Of course, the training fee for this technical school is still relatively expensive for him, so he has to apply for a student loan.

Therefore, in addition to attending classes, he is not a part-time job at school, but wants to spend Saturday and Sunday wandering around the southeast and northwest of the city as an hourly worker. Don't eat breakfast, lunch is a rice and a spoonful of free broth. Dinner with the cheapest dishes. This is basically his whole life.

After a month, all the income is sometimes not enough to repay the loan, and his mother will also give hundreds of dollars in support, because his mother's income is not high, and there is still a small amount of debt that has not been paid off. He understands.

However, he never complains, because he believes that happiness is a day and unhappiness is also a day. And unnecessary complaints can't solve any practical problems.

He believes that the difficulties are only temporary, and the future will get better and better as long as you work hard.

Although he missed the opportunity to go to college, it is difficult for him to have time to go back to school in the future, but he is learning a technology and can go a long way on this road.

Fate never let him choose anything, but closed the door for him and didn't open a window for him at the same time. He had to open the window on his own.

In fact, no one's life is smooth sailing, but many people have experienced hardships that we have no chance to see.

Some people have wealth, but they may not have healthy bodies.

Some people are in good health, but they can only make ends meet.

Some people live in No Country for Old Men, some people have family discord, some people make do with life, and some people are divorced.

In short, in this life, everyone may have a hard time.

But what can you do, be a bad life judge? Give yourself a bad opinion of all people and things, and imagine yourself as the most unfortunate person in the world.

Or like Xianglinsao in Lu Xun's article, tell everyone about your misfortune.

When you look at people and things in the world from a certain height, you actually find that what you have experienced is so insignificant, even much better than many people. Think more about what you have and less about what you don't have. There is no need to compare with others.

Learn to hedge and plant chrysanthemums in your heart, so as to obtain spiritual and spiritual peace.

Xiaoyu said that in recent years, I have met all kinds of people in my work career, and I have met many people who are better than you and work harder than you.

Think of yourself as a butterfly. It takes a long time to get dark before it breaks into a butterfly.

Since the gifts given by fate are secretly marked with prices. Suffering is also its gift. So what does it matter if the gift of fate comes later? Maybe just to tie a beautiful bow for this gift.

Xiaoyu's favorite song is Red Sun, which is an old song that many post-90s people are not familiar with. Rare leisure time, he always hummed:

How many opportunities does fate give people?

Fate makes people speechless

Fate always answers irrelevant questions and makes people cry.

I won't lose heart. The wind blows and blows.

Let's experience it with our hearts *

Is the crossroads of life left or right?

Who knows what life needs from childhood to adulthood?

I am willing to do this for this complex.

I'm too persistent.

The heart in heaven and earth really knows me.

I know, because you cry with me and make me happy.

Like a red fire, love me with your heart.

Let's forget the indifference of the world.

My dream is vast.

There is an unknown distance calling you, waiting for me.

There is a fire in my heart.

Do you want such a future?

Although the boy is wandering in the embrace of fate, his positive attitude will always guide him to a better future. Judging from the law of attraction, his mentality will inevitably attract positive energy. If he faces everything negatively, he is likely to waste his life complaining.

Boys who don't think about the past, are not afraid of the future, and strive to open the window of life for themselves will not be too bad luck.