How high is the index of abuse you can bear in love?

1. How high is your abuse index?

Abuse index 100%, the most suitable sentence for you is "Oh, my God! Please give me some courage! " You are timid and indecisive by nature, and you won't resist unreasonable situations. Of course, you will only wait to be beaten and scolded. Moreover, even if your relatives and friends are good at persuading you, you can't escape the fate of being abused. You can only say that you really deserve it.

The abuse index is 40%. Basically, you can only be bullied by others occasionally when you are sick, frustrated, encounter major problems and so on. You don't have a domineering face, but you are not a fuel-efficient lamp that can be played with. You will demand the dignity and rights you deserve. Love remedy, you must find someone as rational as you, in order to let the other person protect you when you are in a weak position. Your ideas and concepts are the same, and you can grow old together.

Abuse index 0% Smart and flexible ... All the factors that can't be abused are concentrated on you, and no one can touch you. More importantly, you have first-class self-protection skills, and the enemy will stop you. Don't fight if you can flash, and don't give up if you can. You know the advantages and disadvantages of human nature, and you can use it freely.

2. The danger of childhood abuse

New research has found that childhood abuse increases the risk of migraine in the future. This latest study analyzed the data of more than 8,300 migraine patients and 1400 tension headache patients.

After investigating the participants, the researchers found that 24.5% migraine patients reported that they had been mentally abused; 2 1.5% patients with tension headache also reported being abused in childhood.

3. Beauty loves the abused psychology of bad men.

A cynical man always attracts women's attention. On the one hand, this unusual gesture aroused women's curiosity. On the other hand, a cynical man often becomes cynical by being a little handsome. It's hard to imagine how a person with a mediocre appearance and intelligence can put on a cynical look.

Women will fall in love with handsome guys, just as men will be fascinated by beautiful women. Handsome men are cynical, but in the eyes of women, they are flamboyant and unruly, which makes women like to speculate on the stories behind them and then fall in love. Simply put, it is infatuation.

Manifestation of abused personality

Abused personality often happens to women, because girls are always in a weak position in life. If they have pain, they can't say it, but stay in their hearts. Their anger is often ignored, but it will form fatigue.

The abused personality must attract people's attention, be willing to maintain the relationship of being exploited, abused or putting others in a superior position, and give up the opportunity to change this situation; Think that you should sacrifice your own interests for others; Refuse others' help, gifts or favors so as not to become a burden to others; Feel guilty about success and courtesy, and worry too much about not being able to assume and complete new responsibilities; Only consider your own shortcomings, but don't see your own advantages; Always pessimistic about the future, always thinking of disadvantages for the past and the present; It is inconceivable to receive unexpected favors or send a small accountant; I always agree with what others say, and I don't know how to refuse, even if I don't like it.

The secret of women's love for abuse

Psychologists write that abuse and happiness, every kind of pain contains the possibility of happiness. Men's sexual desire is a mixture of aggression and conquest, which is manifested in biology. If he doesn't seek the object of conquest in other ways different from other ways of seeking love, he will feel dull.

Psychologists believe that although love and survival instinct are opposite to attack and destruction instinct, they can also be transformed into each other (such as love into hate) or combined. When sexual instinct and aggressive instinct are combined, for example, pointing to external sexual objects, rape is formed, and pointing to oneself forms sexual abuse psychopathy. We can call this instinct to promote phagocytosis and the formation of phagocytosis sadistic instinct. The instinct of sadism and masochism is the beginning of love. I read a passage the other day: "Women have a natural sense of guilt about their physical desires. Therefore, expecting pleasure and escaping pleasure are contradictory. "