The process of the man going to the woman's house to propose marriage.

1. Preparation before marriage proposal

When the man comes to propose, he must dress neatly and be polite. Ask the woman's parents to agree to your marriage, and then determine the wedding date after you get the affirmation. Before proposing marriage, the woman's family should set a date to show respect. When it was put forward, the man said to the woman's parents, "My parents have a fantasy to visit at home. I don't know when you are free. "

Step 2 choose a date to propose marriage

Most people don't care much about the date of marriage proposal, as long as both parties are free. If there is anything particular and taboo, it is not to propose in the first month and July of the lunar calendar. Even numbers in the lunar calendar or even numbers in the solar calendar are more pleasing to propose.

3. What do you need to discuss when proposing?

Marriage: Make sure that both parents agree to this marriage.

Wedding date: the choice and selection of wedding date.

Lucky money: Lucky money is divided into big and small. The man should take the initiative to ask the woman's views and opinions, such as the amount, whether to receive bride price money, etc.

Under normal circumstances, after the proposal, the woman's parents are willing to give the bride-to-be's birthday to the man to choose the date; However, some women decide the date. You can first express your hope to get married in January or how long after your engagement. After reaching an agreement, you can set a date in the birthday column.

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4. The specific process of a man proposing marriage

Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to arrange the marriage proposal at about 5: 30 pm.

Explain the purpose and briefly communicate the family situation. Both parents know each other, and it is the first time for both parents to meet, so it is inevitable that they will be a little nervous and embarrassed. The two children should actively and enthusiastically play the role of regulating the atmosphere, and don't let both parents be cold.

After sitting for an hour, I invited the woman's home for dinner and booked a restaurant near her home in advance. Because of the wedding, be sure to book a private room, remember.

Dinner starts around 6: 30, which can enhance understanding. The man's parents give the woman bride price money. This person should not only pay attention to eating. He should always pay attention to the woman's parents, give them food and tea, and take care of his girlfriend. When the food is slow, he should know to hurry, ask for napkins in time, be the host, and take the initiative to check out when he is almost finished.

After dinner, send the woman's family downstairs and say goodbye.