Do couples pay attention to the coffin size after death?

The coffin used by men is called dry coffin, which is slightly larger; The coffin used by women is called Kun coffin, which is slightly smaller. Left hand up, right hand down, men on the left, women on the right. No matter who dies first, it is always buried in the established location.

When a husband and wife die, they put a board between two coffins, which is called "crossing the bridge", indicating that they are holding hands in the underworld. In the past, the couple's coffins were made at the same time, so as not to embarrass their children and grandchildren. Cremation is advocated now, and few people make coffins in advance.

Seven weeks after his death is called July 7th Merit Completion Day. Pay attention to doing good for the dead. Where you do any merit (referring to all Buddhist events and ceremonies, etc. ), chanting Buddha is still the most important thing. In modern society, people seldom do things to recite Buddha. Just offering sacrifices, worshipping and burning paper money, but it's gone. The purpose of burning paper is to make people get used to their dead relatives and have left their relatives.

Let yourself gradually get rid of the strong yearning for the deceased relatives. Get rid of the sense of dependence on the deceased relatives. Let yourself face the world independently and develop your own career. Don't let missing your loved ones affect your studies and career.

Ordinary people, who died after July 7th, have come to an end for the time being, and will not pay homage to the dead again until next year in Tomb-Sweeping Day and Zhou Nianji. So it was finished on July 7. The offerings should be complete, especially the favorite before death, such as tea, cigarettes, wine, playing cards, etc. And take them to burn incense. Tell the deceased the handling and results of the 49-day funeral and comfort the dead. Everything is fine now.