If you don't change yourself, you will be muddling along wherever you go.

Cat-cat students have newly learned Tarot divination. I have neither rejected nor believed in these things-"discard the dross and take the essence", only believing in the positive side for myself.

So when she was in high spirits, I asked her to bring me one.

Choose the direction of occupation and card drawing.

Cat: Look at your first feeling.

Me: Two are beautiful and two are hard.

Cat: I see. I'll take over.

……

Cat: Actually, from the card face, there are still problems in both the current job and the new job. We can't see the specific advantages and disadvantages of the card results. Let's solve the current problems first.

When the cat said this, the story of kangaroo immediately came to my mind.

The owner found that kangaroos always jumped out of the railing. In order to prevent the kangaroo from jumping out of the railing again, he raised the railing 10 meter, and found that the kangaroo could still jump out, so he raised the railing again ... Finally, the owner found that the kangaroo was able to escape from the fence because the door was not closed.

Although the cat said modestly that she felt useless, she was very moved and told her: I immediately thought of this kangaroo story. The so-called failure was mostly my own problem. I didn't find the problem, but I spent my time and energy on the problem that I couldn't solve at all.

The cat is very happy: well, it's actually a psychological problem. I always want to pursue something ideal, but all my ideals are based on reality.

In other words, I dreamed of poetry and distance, and I want to escape from the present! However, if you don't find your own problems and change them, where will you escape?

I can't help thinking of my former colleague Xiaoli. Xiaoli is indeed a natural beauty. Although she was not recruited through the company's recruitment channels (the workshop supervisor is a distant relative), she just graduated from junior college and has no other special advantages, but it is very pleasing to the eye at first glance.

Because the company has expanded its scale and subdivided its posts, I want to separate the procurement from my colleagues, so it should be no problem to train the procurement office!

One day, the financial manager asked her about the import purchase report. She was a little confused, so the financial manager called her over and showed her the previous purchase report. After reading it, she went back to her seat, sat for a long time, and suddenly said to the financial manager, this is not my job.

Hearing this sentence, I asked, what shouldn't you do? Tell her that this is what you should do when you know it. In the past, the company was small, and we all had several jobs. Xiao Zhang does both finance and shopping, so she is used to it. Now that the purchase is separated, you made this form.

Because I have been busy with my own affairs, I only heard her conversation with the financial manager. She sat on the bench for a long time, and then said something, which was later told to me by the financial manager.

The financial manager said I don't want to bring such a person. When I encounter a problem, I will stay for a long time, not to think about how to solve it, but to think about whether she should do it. Besides, he is not a clever man at all. Why doesn't he make an import purchase order when he is a purchasing backstage? ! I can think for a long time and come to the conclusion that she shouldn't do it. I don't want to bring such a person.

Not long after, the company received an order, requiring the paint of the manufacturer designated by the customer to make the surface. Companies are basically old customers, so the contact information of suppliers is ready-made. Just call to place an order and track the arrival.

At work the next day, the salesman came over and asked her when the paint would arrive. She said she booked it yesterday and didn't know when it would arrive. The salesman was very angry: ask at once. Then he left in a hurry.

He glanced at the sales discontentedly and said nothing.

After a while, the salesman ran over and asked when he would arrive.

She replied, I'm dealing with the mail, and I haven't had time to ask.

The salesman was very angry: ask at once, it's urgent!

She is even more dissatisfied. She picked up the phone slowly and dialed the number. When no one was there, she told the salesman coldly that no one answered.

The salesman left a word: keep playing and leave in a hurry.

After the sales left, I quickly reminded her that you may not understand the characteristics of our industry when you first arrived. As long as you place an order, the customer won't leave us much time. It usually takes three to five days to deliver the goods, so they will keep an eye on the sales.

She snorted: I just can't get used to his domineering manner.

I heard it in distress situation. If you had sent him away earlier, wouldn't you have to read it? !

She doesn't work for me, but she has a working relationship. I once found something wrong with her watch. If we follow the normal practice, this kind of mistake should not happen, so I asked her how she did it.

After understanding her practice, tell her how to do it, which is simple and efficient. She replied, "I can't delay a few minutes."

This stunned me: we all want to have two more hands, and she doesn't think it is very important to improve efficiency. Dissatisfaction or say a few more words.

Seeing that she was silent, I went back to do my own thing and didn't take it too seriously.

Although I am not her direct supervisor, I criticized her after all. I am very practical. She even thought of the entanglement with other colleagues the day before and said angrily-someone must have spoken ill of me behind my back! Noisy companies are full of noise.

Because I have worked with the workshop supervisor for many years, I still know it very well. The workshop supervisor specially came to apologize to me, saying that this distant cousin was spoiled and unruly since childhood, and talked to her frequently in private, but the little girl didn't suffer anything, and it was useless to say it.

At the end of the year, I saw her forwarding "Reasons for Employees' Resignation" in a circle of friends:

I can't help but hehe.

At the end of the year, I don't know if I didn't give enough year-end bonus, or I stayed here and made a resignation report. When I reported my resignation to the vice president, the vice president only said four words: "I do."

When I was chatting with the workshop director, I mentioned Xiaoli intentionally or unintentionally. The workshop director lamented that after she resigned from our company, she worked in two other companies. She hasn't made much progress in that level and knowledge, and she always thinks she is excellent. She is an ordinary shop assistant, but she still feels that others are always targeting her. The boss is stingy, and she is unhappy everywhere. She went home and got married the year before last, and now she is taking care of the children at home.

After working in this company for ten years, I naturally don't feel sorry for others. What's my question? What the cat said made me lost in thought.

In the past ten years, a grass-roots clerk has been nicknamed "the maid with the key" by friends. Looking back on the past, there have been many "deeds" that touched me, as well as the entanglement of thinking about thousands of roads overnight and taking the old road in the morning.

Last year, I finally made up my mind and let go of some responsibilities, just like a bird that had been imprisoned for N years was suddenly released, and I was very excited for a while.

Thanks to the kindness of my boss, I adjusted my post according to my own wishes. Although I have a lot of leisure time, I still respect me and don't impose any work I don't want to do. How do you get tired of doing this?

With the mood suddenly enlightened, there is also a lot of leisure time. It is not a good state for people to be too idle or too busy. If you are too idle, you will think too much and your feelings will overflow. The so-called melodramatic fart matter, emptiness, loneliness and coldness are all due to laziness, depravity and idleness.

I have a lot less responsibility at work, but I still have to undertake some trivial things. Yes, it is trivial.

I have made a serious procrastination again. This procrastination is not because I pursue perfection and won't do it, but because I am upset in front of these trivial things. Secondly, I think I have enough time and there is no need to do it in such a hurry. The result of this behavior is dissatisfaction with the existing work.

It is. I am not a snob, but a selector. I don't want to do big things with responsibility. Small things with little responsibility are small things. But where can I find a job that is just right, neither responsible nor easy? !

There has never been a job with more money and less work, close to home, high position and light responsibility.

I was advised to eat enough. When I think of cats during the Spring Festival holiday, I will actively adjust my mentality after going to work, and the whole person's mental outlook will be completely new.

A while ago, after two weeks of surprise missions, I always hated rework. I never want to work overtime. Even changed three drafts, even stayed up until eleven o'clock at night and got up at three o'clock in the morning. I don't even regret it!

If it is not to cope with inspections and emergencies, it is more routine work every day, without challenges, difficulties and less responsibilities, and there is more spare time to pursue poetry and distance. Isn't that what you want? !

The lure of coming from afar may be that the working environment is better, but I can stay in the environment for ten years, but now I dislike it and imagine myself ridiculous.

Listening to "life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance", I have no feeling at all. Is it because now is not about now, but about poetry and distance?