Why did the predecessor cheat, should it be saved, and what should I do to save the predecessor?

Why did the predecessor cheat, should it be saved, and what should I do to save the predecessor? First, emotional needs are not met. In your relationship with her, you didn't meet her emotional needs, and often ignored her feelings, making her feel that she was not taken seriously. She can't get what she wants in this relationship and must make up for it from other places. For example, the understanding and consideration of others can clear her negative emotions, which will lead to derailment.

Second, the way of getting along is not equal. In this relationship, the influence of your relationship is unequal. She doesn't take you seriously and doesn't care what kind of harmful harm her behavior will bring you. In essence, she has little investment in this relationship. Betraying this relationship will not cause her too much harm, and she will not feel too guilty about you.

Third, with the help of people around and the temptation of the outside world, some friends of derailed people cheated after marriage. When he is with such a friend, that kind of good friend will tell him that cheating is just a normal thing, and she will be affected if she stays with these people for a long time, and will regard cheating as normal. Later, in an entertainment, because people around her instigated her to betray you, she would feel guilty until she stayed awake. It is very likely that he will stop from now on, but he may have luck to cheat again.

Fourth, the lack of freshness is generally because the husband and wife have been together for a long time, and the temptation of emotional fatigue is slowly decreasing. The age of extramarital affairs is generally after 35-45 years old. At this time, both of you are working and living smoothly, and when new temptations appear around you, you will be unable to control yourself. She thought she was cheating to find true feelings, but in fact she was just repeating the sweet time when everyone was together at the beginning, and until the constant contradictions and disputes occurred, it would still consume her feelings.

If you reach an agreement and decide to start over, it is better to take this time to change yourself, try something you have never tried before, increase the time together, and find the feeling of just being together.