What is love at first sight? Love at first sight is looking at the color.

Love at first sight is seeing color.

Love for a long time is to weigh the pros and cons.

But I think love should be

I only care about this person all my life.

And only weigh the pros and cons with this person all my life.

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These strong and sudden feelings are named love at first sight because they can't be controlled. Everyone is looking forward to it and scared.

What kind of psychological secret is hidden behind "love at first sight"

Or, is everything really destiny takes a hand?

It only takes 8.2 seconds for love at first sight to happen.

In other words, in the eighth second of meeting you, my heart already belongs to you.

A questionnaire survey on love experience shows that 55.2% people have experienced love at first sight, including 6 1. 1% men and 50.6% women, indicating that love at first sight not only exists, but also exists differences between men and women.

Men are more likely to fall in love at first sight (unrequited love) and be attracted by each other's appearance, while women pay more attention to each other's inner feelings.

We find that men are generally lecherous. After the failure of chasing girls, there are few strong men who are unwilling to marry. Most men tend to set new goals soon, so girls should not take men's vows too seriously.

Even after a man marries a woman he likes, he can't help looking at beautiful women in the street. Women are very angry and say they can't trust men.

Love at first sight is so beautiful and confusing.

The bright light in front of you makes you lose your reason and judgment, because it is a bit rash to gamble for a lifetime in one minute.

Whether it is love at first sight or long-term love, the heartbeat at that moment is the feature of love, but it is not the whole of love.

So when you have a crush on your partner for a moment, but then it's gone, it's normal, because love is not always made up of heartbeat. If you keep your heartbeat in love, it's probably your pathological arrhythmia and heart problems, which have nothing to do with your love.

Sometimes we can't settle for a lifetime just because of a minute's affection.

There is no need to make a decision in such a hurry-love or not.

There are two kinds of love at first sight, one is to see each other handsome or beautiful, and the other is to see each other with a feeling of deja vu.

What many girls say is: Just because he is handsome, he has the face to take it out.

I just know that he is a smooth donkey dung egg, an embroidered pillow and a bag of bran.

Except for being handsome, everything else is a shortcoming.

There are so many different people in the world, and their thoughts and feelings have great personal differences. Some people often fall in love at first sight, but you can't say they are playboys.

And some people look at each other, and as a result, they fall in love and get married, and finally stay together until they are old. We have also heard of this situation;

There is also a rare situation, which may be that someone has never touched his heart in love at first sight in his life.

Everyone wants to have this feeling of love at first sight. We will imagine a perfect couples standard in our mind, and then look forward to meeting them, resulting in a scratching feeling.

This fascination with "color" is not rare.

In fact, every relationship starts from the face value, falls into talent, is loyal to character, and is content with companionship.

Zhang Sheng, who is depressed in The West Chamber, falls in love with Cui Yingying, a stunning beauty. In The Legend of the White Snake, the white lady who cultivates immortality meets Xu Xian, a small Chinese medicine practitioner, and decides to spend her life secretly with the rhythm of "first class in a thousand years".

In Titanic, Jack and Ross, two young men and women with different social status and wealth gap, met by chance on the Titanic. Jack saved Rose who was about to jump into the sea, and they fell in love at first sight.

Although the tragic love story ended in the sinking of the great ship, you jumped and I jumped, and Jack gave his life for Rose, but their eyes fell in love at first sight when they met on the spiral staircase, which was enough to make our hearts thump.

These are typical cases of love at first sight, and Shakespeare's classic Romeo and Juliet can be described as "a bloody case caused by love at first sight"!

There is always some madness in love, but there is also some reason in madness.

Love at first sight, as the name implies, is love at first sight.

A process that is determined only by the appearance, eyes, behavior and smell of the other person.

After understanding the appearance, you will begin to understand the inner changes of the other person.

Love at first sight is less rational and lacks the components and process of love development.

If people in love are fools, it is not an exaggeration to say that people who fall in love at first sight may be described as crazy.

Jung, a psychologist, believes that people are naturally bisexual, and the other half we fall in love with is actually another self.

Then when the object of love at first sight is neither a relative nor an idol, it is possible to fall in love with another "self", but this is only possible.

When a person meets a person of the opposite sex who has a "shadow personality" with himself, his heart often feels happy and jumps with joy, because the other person shows the personality characteristics that he lacks (or has been suppressed and disappeared).

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Love at first sight is also a narcissistic reaction.

Everyone will be affected by the environment.

There will be a template for the other half in my mind, which is in line with my understanding of love.

Once we meet someone similar to this template, we will fall in love at first sight.

After the passion of love at first sight, the high mood returns to normal, and both men and women may suddenly find each other completely different from what they thought before.

Reading words is like reading emotional projection of face.

Someone I've never met.

Because I seem to know all the characters.

Seems to smell each other's souls.

There is a feeling that I can't tell where it is, but it can't be replaced.

The essence is to meet a lady with delicate heart as my partner!

Is there love at first sight in this world? Maybe there is.

Only people with the same energy can recognize each other.

Only people with the same energy will appreciate each other.

Only people with the same energy will understand.

From the perspective of self-psychology, partners in stable development can satisfy each other in idealized needs, mirror needs, close friends' needs and integration needs, and are in an appropriate and balanced state.

When partners have their own space and find the right intersection, they will find a balance between independence and sharing, and it will be easier for intimate relationships to spiral up and develop steadily on this basis.

The same frequency can only vibrate. What kind of friends are you looking for? What kind of person do you want to live first?

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