Please answer an old man in Jinling! Hello, old man. I'm Xin Younian, female. So far unmarried. I'm impatient. It's almost fifty-three. Can you explain it? Thank humbly!

I just saw your help. But I'm too tired today. Just a moment, please. Try to give my opinion in three to five days. Please forgive me.

Anonymous user:

1, I don't know how the "actual questioner" got the gradual divination. As far as divination itself is concerned, it is related to "efficacy".

Generally speaking, the person who tied the bell is needed to solve the problem. If someone else helps "the heart has Nv", he should answer it.

3. Since you are asking about gradual divination, the old man can only talk about gradual divination.

The following remarks are for reference only and should be regarded as entertainment, so don't pay too much attention to them.

Some people who only know a little gossip, some may speak very well, and some may not. Because they just simply and directly find the answer from the hexagrams. Gradually, Bu Bu said, "It's good luck for the girl to return." It means the woman is getting married, Geely. This is certainly good. However, in the eulogy, there are words such as "the husband will never come again" and "the woman is pregnant and can't have children". Of course, it is unlucky for the husband not to go home and the woman to have an abortion.

However, if you copy it mechanically, Zhouyi will be too simple.

I want to say the following four points. Before my fourth conclusion, I want to talk about three points that need to be paid attention to:

1, gradual divination takes the flying of waterfowl as a metaphor to tell the gradual process of everything. Nothing can happen overnight, there is a process of occurrence, development and maturity. As far as general marriage and love are concerned, the gradual divination warns that marriage has a process of "asking names, winning prizes, inviting people and even picking them up", which cannot be achieved overnight. Only in this way can "women return to Kyrgyzstan" be realized. Marriage in modern society also has a gradual process from acquaintance, acquaintance, love to marriage, which is very urgent. Speed dating and flash marriage are very dangerous. Although "a girl with a heart" is in her thirties, she should still adopt a positive but not urgent attitude. Action should be active and hard, and the mentality should be relaxed and peaceful. If you delay time because you hesitated before, and now you rush to the other extreme, it will violate the enlightenment of gradual divination.

2. Gradually divination tells a story: Waterbirds fly from the water's edge to the flat, from the flat to the forest, and from the forest to the mountain. Experience has gradually increased, and my horizons have become wider and wider. However, I always feel that the conditions in the new habitat are not as good as before. The more you fly forward, the more you will compare, and the more you feel that the new place is poor. For example, the place near the water is the most suitable place for waterfowl to live and stay, while in the Woods, waterfowl is not particularly suitable for other birds. Broadening one's horizons is certainly a good thing, but it also has disadvantages, that is, it will make people pay more and more attention to material conditions and become more and more critical, and as a result, they will become less and less ideal in the face of the new environment. Therefore, the old man wants to warn you that you have a heart and look at the conditions when choosing a spouse, but don't compare the current object with the friends you have talked about before, which can only get worse and worse, and become more and more dissatisfied.

Marriage has one characteristic. When we first fall in love, we often only talk about feelings. The more friends you make later, the older you get, the more you will pay attention to the realistic conditions, the more you will be too rational and indifferent to emotions. I'm afraid this is the place that my daughter should pay attention to.

3. Gradual divination consists of Kun divination and Gen divination. The sea melon symbolizes the eldest daughter and modesty, while the root melon symbolizes the high mountain and means "stop". In a word, gradual divination warns people that those who occupy this kind of divination should take a humble but not harsh attitude towards the problem and stop when it is time. Some daughters in my heart can be regarded as "eldest daughters". From the perspective of gradual divination, it seems that the opportunity has arrived. If we can be modest and not demanding in choosing a spouse, as gradually warned, we believe there will still be a beautiful marriage.

4. In short, it is a good omen that the eldest daughter stops and goes smoothly.

That's all. I wish you a happy marriage this year!