Emotion: 1 1 What about a long-distance relationship?

Emotion: 1 1 What about a long-distance relationship?

? Guangzhou &; Changchun, aged 35&; At the age of 24, even he admitted that old cows eat young grass. Not long after we were together, online dating came into being for half a year. When we first met, I didn't agree that it was too soon. We met in early June, and we are far away. He is very busy at work and starts his own business. He is a successful man. It is common to get off work at night after 10/1. My hometown is also Changchun, and I can't go back several times a year. I thought about giving up countless times, and he promised me the future. He wants to get married when he is old, and he wants to have a second child.

However, the thought that he didn't take the initiative, didn't answer for a second, didn't even answer the news, and interacted with other women to comment and take pictures … makes me angry! He said those were his employees and partners. Rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests. He is not interested in rabbits.

? He has comforted me countless times and turned my complaints, dissatisfaction and worries into a sense of security and concentration. He treats me like a child, but I don't treat him like an uncle. It's really good that he started from scratch, and he had a lovely year, sometimes naive like a teenager, and sometimes humorous.

? I even go to divination and tarot card divination. Girls just want to hold a big tree in front of the erratic love fog to predict the future and see the results. Look at the eight characters-I am his positive fate, he is my partial fate, and the decision is up to the woman. After this year, we give in to each other, and his good luck next year will be good for our development. He said he wanted to get married next year, and he might come back at the end of the year or next year. Tarot card divination-he is the person I am destined to meet.

He said that not only women have a sixth sense, but also men have a sixth sense. He has a special feeling for me. Me too. Before I met him, I had a general fantasy in my heart-medium build, 175cm~ 178cm, with regular facial features, and I just looked pleasing to the eye. Maybe I'm in a traditional industry. I am a little older than me. I am mature and care about my family. I can tolerate my academic background. I like bossy presidents. After all, I grew up watching idol dramas and novels, and I have a girlish heart. His appearance conforms to 80% of my fantasy, except for his age, which is not the expected 3~5 years old.

? I often talk about him with my friends, almost every day. He lowered my love bottom line again and again, as long as he didn't cheat. This is what he asked of me. There are no other requirements for me. Man's possessiveness.

? Sometimes the chat frequency is less than once a week. If I want to contact him actively, he may not return. I comforted myself-he must be too busy. After all, during the two days when I met him, when he called directly, his eyes were covered with red blood, he didn't have a good rest and his hair fell out. He also said that he had no time for small talk or rest. He praised me for being considerate, probably because I don't make trouble. I don't even know how to make him care about me. For mature men, making trouble won't care about you, it will only replace you. This is a cruel fact.

? I feel that no one will really like him for so long except me. I have known him since June 5438+last February. Online dating for half a year is almost a long-distance relationship, which is really torture. He probably misses me, too. He said it. I feel insecure and always hesitate between whether he loves me or not. Fortunately, he is a responsible person, but he is straight, not romantic, can't manage feelings, and won't cheat me.

I often consider his ideas from the perspective of others. What is a 35-year-old middle-aged man thinking? Most of them are busy reading, enjoying the vicissitudes of life and longing for an ordinary life. He came to me, probably because he is from his hometown. It seems that he doesn't want to find a southern girl. I asked him what he liked about me. He said soul. A little surprised.

? To outsiders, I don't deserve him. I belong to two worlds, economic gap, age gap and social status gap ... But love has never studied geography, distance is not a problem, love has never studied economy, and wealth is not a problem. What others see is his good, and his bad side is that there is an unknown woman behind every successful man I see, and I became that one actively or passively. My love bottom line and ideological pattern were also forced to change because of him. Fortunately, things are getting better, not worse.

He saw countless people and guessed that I was a child+girl before meeting, but he met me anyway, which also shows that he likes me. He also said that he would put down his mobile phone and accompany me to go to work for a day. I am also very touched. He felt guilty about me. Others think he is good, and I don't deserve it. I still don't think he deserves my patience, perseverance and sincerity. My intuition is very accurate, and I feel that we are destined to meet, no matter what the outcome is, just let it be.

I feel more relaxed, simple, happy and happy with him. I can be myself without pretending to be a lady. He is a special identity, like a brother, like a father, like a lover, which may be the composition of her husband.

? Husband = brother+father+lover.

Who is he in my eyes? White (juvenile)+black (president)+blue (lover)

? Until a video verified my idea—

Man = beast+teenager+wise man.

? Beast: sensory needs, physiological needs.

? Teenager: A distracted person decides whether he likes you or not.

Wise man: Whether mature and rational judgment is appropriate.

After these three psychological barriers, he will choose you.