A thousand miles of marriage is a thread. Don't let the emotional debts in this life accumulate until the next life.

In ancient China, it was often said that husband and wife were meant to be. In the moonlight, the old people tied a red line on their feet, so that the right spouses could be firmly tied together. There is also a saying of "soul mate" in western countries, which holds that you don't have to look for love everywhere with lanterns. As long as you live a good life, you will meet the right person one day. Moreover, regardless of the stories about marriage in ancient and modern China and foreign countries, they are recorded in historical materials, texts or scholars' research, such as the following three:

1. Dream Wedding-Zheng Huan's Ancient Dream Marriage

Tai Ping Guang Ji in Tang Dynasty specializes in local unofficial history and novels, among which Zheng Huan's Marriage of Ancient Dreams is a romantic ghost story. Dr. Zheng Huanggu of imperial academy is engaged to the daughter of Gong Liu, the minister of punishments. After the wedding date was set, Zheng Huanggu and Kou Zhang Daoshi spent the night in Zhao Ying County. When I was sleeping at night, I dreamed that I drove through three small bridges, came to a family behind the temple, and married a girl. The wedding host's surname was Fang.

When Zheng Huangu woke up, he told Kouzhang about his dream wedding and took out a pen and paper to record it. Kou Zhang replied, "I'm getting married. It's not surprising that I had such a dream by chance. Later, Zheng Huanggu's wife Liu passed away. A few years later, he married Li of Dongluo and got married in a house behind a temple in Zhao Ying County. As expected, he crossed three bridges that day.

Coincidentally, the person who presided over the wedding was Fang, who was a friend of the bride's Li family. Zheng suddenly realized that the dream of that year was to predict today's wedding. When he told everyone about it, all the guests were surprised and sighed.

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2. Wandering around and finally finding out that the other person is a lover-Zhu Xian's marriage is saved.

Zhu Xian wants to marry Du Fu, the daughter of the county magistrate, and is engaged! Wang Jian was a member of the original group. At that time, he became emperor himself, and Du Shi was elected to the original Shu Palace. Later, when the former Shu kingdom perished, Zhu Xian went to Pengzhou to be an official. Please help him find a suitable person to get married. After marriage, Zhu Xian heard that she had been a maid-in-waiting.

Zhu Xian remembered his fiancee who had entered the palace before, and confessed to his wife: "I originally wanted to marry Du, but I still remember that I was ashamed of Nanruan's poverty (meaning that my family was poor) in the engagement book. How can I bear the name and responsibility of my son-in-law? " 」

Coincidentally, Wang sighed: "I am Du, and Wang is my family name. After coming out of the palace, I have nowhere to go. It was Wang who took me in. " Zhu Xian listened to the frightened, more cherish this recovered marriage, husband and wife have deep feelings.

3. Wen Qing's love story-Hou Ji's "Ye Marriage"

Hou Ji native, former Shu Shangshu, was born in a scholarly family. He kept reciting poems all day and often went to Daci Temple in Chengdu. He is a standard literary youth. One year, when the autumn wind was blowing everywhere, he boarded the balcony of Daci Temple and leaned against the railing to enjoy the scenery. Suddenly, a leaf fell. He reached out and grabbed it, and wrote a poem on it: "Try to pick two moths for depression." In autumn, the book becomes a sentence of lovesickness. This word is not calligraphy stone, and this word is not calligraphy paper. The book is facing the autumn leaves, hoping to catch up with the autumn wind. The ungrateful people in the world will die of lovesickness. 」

Hou Jitu kept this leaf in a box. About five or six years later, he married a celebrity in Chengdu. One day, he was reciting poems on the leaves. When his wife Shi Ren heard this, she said, "This is a poem written on the page. Write it on the left (now Mianyang). How did you know? Hou Jitu was surprised and asked his wife to write the whole poem silently, just like the poem on the leaf.

Don't let the emotional debt in this life be too full, and pay it back in the next life.

After reading the above three stories, although some literati will inevitably polish them, in recent years, many fiery costume dramas also show China's marriage that emphasizes "the way of heaven and earth", which also affects the traditional marriage customs in Taiwan Province Province. When you get married, you should worship heaven and earth, parents and husband and wife, and let the god of heaven and earth testify. Husband and wife will help each other and make up for a hundred years. If they break their vows, they will be punished and condemned by God. If they were married in a previous life.

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This theory of treating marriage well is also popular in different forms in the West. Dr Brian Weiss, the author of The New York Times's best-selling book Past Lives, combines psychology and medicine to help people carry out retrospective treatment. He believes that everything has a cause and effect, and past lives affect this life. People should be kind to each other and adjust their hearts, so as to break through the problems in life. It is also a very romantic thing for husband and wife to cherish each other, understand each other and live alone.