Please ask someone who knows how to count plum blossoms for me. Can we still be together? How to start divination: thank you for your time!

Objection, for girls, for ordinary people. Shocked, for men, for bureaucrats. He should be older than you and have better family conditions than you. Although you can still take the initiative and control the situation, you already feel uneasy inside. This is due to your free will. As long as you control your emotions and randomness, you can still be together. If he has a family, he'd better give it up, because the result is very bad for you.