Stop labeling me.

In fact, I hate being labeled. I always feel that I will be secretly influenced by these labels.

Take eating goods as an example. A few years ago, the label "Chihuo" was very popular among girls. Almost every girl around me will say that she is a foodie, and so am I. Every time my classmates ask me to make an evaluation of myself, I will say that I am a foodie.

As a result, whenever I see my classmates, I have to eat snacks in front of them. Although I don't like some things, I will pretend to like them. After all, as a foodie, how can you have snacks that you don't like?

I remember seeing that people's behavior is always influenced by external evaluation on the Internet, and I really realized that my thinking has been restricted by various labels.

I remember that in high school Chinese class, our Chinese teacher always mentioned round numbers and peaceful numbers. She always tells us that when analyzing the characters in novels, we should not always start from one angle. The characters in excellent works are all three-dimensional. There are all kinds of personalities.

I think the most wonderful literature should be life. People in life should be rich, how can they be summarized by several labels?

During this time, I have always liked the word tenderness, and I have always hoped that I can become a gentle and elegant woman. But the word elegance is more or less inappropriate to describe a girl of seventeen or eighteen. But I just like it when people say that about me.

When I express my desire to be a gentle girl, people around me always use this word intentionally or unintentionally to limit my actions.

But in this way, the fun of my life has been reduced by more than half. What kind of person a person will eventually become should depend on the changes brought by his years of study and life. Not a group of people around him to judge his behavior.

If I really want to be a gentle girl, I should take the initiative to change my behavior, instead of many people teaching me to do things. Besides, my ideas are changeable. Maybe I want to be a lady today and a full-fledged sports girl tomorrow. Who can speak it well?

My thoughts and actions are only my present stage, not my life. Why did you label me early and let me be imprisoned in this label?

The world is rich and colorful, and so are people. As long as you have a correct view of benevolence, righteousness and morality, why care about other people's details? Don't interfere with each other, bloom alone, don't you?

Don't label me at will, define me. My thoughts are changeable, and my preferences are not fixed. I want to taste the wonderful world and the diversity of life one by one.