I am humble in love, how can I change my position in love?

The first thing you need to understand is why you are so humble in a relationship. In fact, the reason is very simple, but it is because you love each other too much, care about each other too much, and are afraid that each other will leave you. That's why you humbly let each other fall in love, beg each other to see your goodness, and then stay with you. In fact, it can also be said that it is because I am not confident enough and love each other too much, which will lead to the present situation.

If you don't want to be too humble in love, you should understand that the more humble you are in a relationship, the more humble you will become, because you are used to being humble and the other person is used to being humble to him, so he has been lowering the bottom line between you, and you have been lowering your bottom line because of him. In the end, the real pain is yourself, because only you understand that this bottom line is constantly being touched.

If you don't want to fight to the end, I advise you to be as self-centered as possible. Why are you humble? It's just that you are too focused on each other, too eager to attract their attention, and too concerned about each other. If you love yourself more, care more about your feelings and live yourself well, you won't be so humble.

You try to improve yourself, or in a relationship, don't always think about making each other happy, but try to make everyone happy, so that you won't live so humble. If you take each other too seriously, you will only make yourself more tired. In the end, the other person will not feel sorry for your tolerance and humility, but will feel that all this is what you should do, so if you don't want your love to become your own love, don't live too much.