Everyone is a deep sea. You can see the smiling face, but you can't read the vicissitudes of life.

Everyone is a deep sea. You can see slight ripples, but you can't read the length of deep current and darkness. You can see a smile, but you can't see the vicissitudes of life. You think you know everything, but in fact you only touch the surface light.

Everyone wants to be treated gently by the world, but as a person who has experienced endless darkness and finally went out, I don't want to wish you happiness. I only hope that you will not change your ambition after going through difficulties and pursue life without seeking comfort. As Nietzsche said: What can't kill you will make you stronger.

People who yearn for peace, joy and being understood by the world at a young age will not achieve much. Because growth is always a hard road, so don't pity yourself, and no one will pity you. The only thing you can do is to prove yourself with strength.

If there is an iron wall in front of you, why don't you tear it down with your own struggle? Even if you finally break your head, you can prove that you have struggled, worked hard, and have no regrets. So, I don't wish you happiness. I wish you experience the vicissitudes of life first, and then bear the vicissitudes of life.

Although, from my current point of view, I know that people's destiny does exist, and sometimes even if a person tries hard, he can't escape the bondage of this powerful force, but it will never prevent me from saying the above words, and certainly it will not affect me from saying the following words.

Since I started publishing articles on the Internet, I have also received many fortune-telling requests from netizens, but I refused them one by one for three reasons. Let me explain briefly:

First, I don't want to be contaminated with cause and effect. Although I said in my last article that cause and effect are true, at the same time, I think it is necessary to reiterate it in order not to cause some unnecessary misunderstandings.

Causal emptiness is the ultimate state after nirvana. Even if you become a Buddha, you haven't reached this state yet, because after all, there are still phases, and there is no escape from cause and effect. Therefore, the cause and effect are not empty, and the gods and buddhas need to be afraid. It's true.

At the same time, it is precisely because the cause and effect are not empty, so I will not easily interfere with the fate of others. Sometimes it is terrible not to say a word, which will have a great impact on a person's life.

So what I do is to convey a positive guidance through writing articles, and ultimately benefit people, rather than fortune telling. To tell the truth, it's really not worth it for that little money.

Secondly, I don't know how many good words to say to comfort you, and I don't want to lie to you, because after all, a rich, healthy and carefree life is rare. Most people's lives are doomed to be full of hardships and bumps, with many bad things and few good things.

And those who can think of asking about the future in this way are mostly unhappy things in real life, so they want to seek comfort, but I also know how cruel it is to break one's hopes when one is in trouble. However, if I have to comfort you and cheat you, I can't do it either.

Third, I don't advocate fortune telling. Although it is destiny takes a hand, there will always be something in life, and there will always be no compulsion in life. However, according to my own destiny and life path, I found that if I knew in advance the way I would go in the future, I would doubt whether I had enough courage to go on. Even if there is, will there be such a general wonderful and hearty experience?

So when I have a deeper understanding of the traditional culture of our nation, I find that the traditional culture of our nation is not negative, but can give people unlimited power.

For example, most of us will regard the Book of Changes as a general book of divination and fortune-telling, and it is this stereotype that makes us feel that it is preaching fatalism.

However, the first divination in the Book of Changes is to do divination, to preserve one's health and to strengthen oneself. It especially emphasizes people's subjective initiative, so as long as you are kind, as long as you don't admit defeat, I am still willing to encourage you to make a breakthrough, summon up courage and win this battle with your life.

Be king if you accomplish nothing, and be king wholeheartedly when you die. This kind of person is not strong but also strong. This is the real self-improvement, the real "my life is up to me."

In fact, this is the secret discovered by my long-term study of Yi Xue. Looking back, it turns out that this is the deep gene that is truly engraved into the blood of our nation.

I'm ashamed to say that I used to think I was smart, because knowing some tricks was going to heaven. But after studying for a circle, I found that the ancient sages had already integrated these simplest but most profound truths into the spiritual core of our nation and propped up the national backbone from generation to generation.

I don't want to praise the meaning of suffering. After all, I have experienced it and know how desperate it will be. Of course, I will not be partial to the value of suffering, because it is not enough to grow.

I think the only thing that I can be proud of and share with you is that when I came out of the endless darkness, I learned to accept what I have experienced … calmly and calmly.

So, dear stranger, no matter how confused you are now, no matter how wronged and desperate you are now, please hold on. You must believe that there is a peak in the mountain and the other side of the sea, and there will be a turning back in the long road, with a bitter and sweet aftertaste.

I hope that when you finally come to out of the dark, you will still disdain to give in to the darkness. I hope that when you see the light again, don't spare the warm sun in your heart, and then live a beam of light to illuminate the world around you!