I've read a passage before, which probably said that a good woman should go to a high-end restaurant, eat good clothes worn by a midnight snack stall and buy them at a roadside stall.

I like such a woman, who can afford thousands of coats, dozens of T-shirts, high-end cafes, roadside mala Tang and luxury cars. I also took the Nanmen No.2 bus, went to elegant mansions and clubs, and could afford the gathering of sisters. You can go to the innocent girl or stand on your own two feet. With you, I can sit all over the world. Without you, my world is still great!

It means that in real life, no matter what happens, you should have your own ideas and always keep yourself and charm.

The technique for maintaining self and charm are as follow:

1, learn to dress properly.

If a woman wants to keep her charm, you should pay attention to dressing up. Women dress themselves up beautifully, not only to please men or attract their attention, but also to make themselves happy.

Then you must learn to dress yourself properly, and you must learn to buy yourself some new clothes. Even if you don't want to attract strange eyes, in order to make yourself happy, you should pay due attention to dressing yourself up and let yourself live a energetic life every day.

2. Constantly improve their competitiveness.

If you want to keep your charm, you must love learning and constantly improve your core competitiveness.

If a middle-aged woman wants to keep her unique charm in marriage, and you want to be comfortable in marriage, then you must learn to improve your comprehensive business ability and quality by learning all kinds of new knowledge, so that you can master more life skills and earn money.

When you have excellent skills and unique advantages, you will be very competitive in marriage. When you become different enough, and you have enough confidence and confidence, men will look at you with new eyes. He will not despise you easily, nor will he completely ignore your existence.

When you become different and have enough comprehensive strength and ability, you will naturally attract more attention from the opposite sex, and your whole person will be brand-new and more confident, and you will become a better shining self.

3. Enhance the tacit understanding between husband and wife.

Learn to cultivate the common language between husband and wife, and learn to enhance the tacit understanding between husband and wife.

The reason why men are obsessed with women is sometimes not entirely because of how beautiful a woman is, but because she is considerate. She and a man are soul mates, and you are full of laughter and understanding together.

If there is no communication between lovers and you have no tacit understanding, then your relationship may be difficult to maintain for a long time.