Listen to the man's heart. What is the woman in the middle-aged man's dream?

Listen to the man's heart. What is the woman in the middle-aged man's dream? Middle-aged men are basically around 30-50 years old. They have relatively stable jobs. For the family, it is stipulated that women can follow in his footsteps and jointly create the future of this family. It is often heard that no matter how old a man is, the woman he likes in his mind is always 18 years old! Even an 80-year-old uncle likes 18-year-old girls. Why are 18-year-old women so attractive? Because young and beautiful, because of good figure.

But like belongs to like, like is not equal to have. In the minds of middle-aged men, they may also like young and beautiful women, but what is the woman they really dream of? Can you say you are young and beautiful? Why not listen to the hearts of these two middle-aged and elderly men? Zhao Ge, 43, has been worried about his marriage for nearly two years. He doesn't know whether to stick to his married life. He is reluctant to give up, but he can't find the motivation to continue.

In recent years, Zhao Ge and his wife have not made much trouble, and his wife's aging is not particularly fast. She is a complete middle-aged woman, but her charm still exists. Since his son went to college, Zhao Ge's heart has been empty, and he can't see his wife when he comes back from work. He didn't know his wife was in mahjong machine until he made a phone call. He was scolded by his wife after asking a few more questions.

It is difficult to talk about a topic with your wife. Zhao Ge met some unpleasant things at work, and met some unhappy things with his colleagues. He wanted to talk to his wife, expecting her to comfort himself. Every time she chats, her wife only cares about her appearance, what skin care products she uses, and the lack of corners in mahjong games. When you talk about her, she is happy to talk to you for a long time, but she doesn't care about her own business. In the past two years, Zhao Ge has often suffered from insomnia. From beginning to end, he couldn't figure out what was wrong with his marriage. Although he has a family, he doesn't have the warmth of home.

The 34-year-old Xiao Wang always likes to pull friends to get together and drink after work, but refuses to go home early. Boys of this age should be homesick and with their wives. Why is Xiao Wang tired of marriage? Xiao Wang grew up in the countryside and got good grades. He was admitted to a famous university, returned to his hometown and found a good job. He met his wife under the recommendation of his colleagues, and they fell in love with each other and quickly entered the marriage life.

His wife is an only daughter from the city, and her family conditions are good. When I first got married, my parents-in-law gave full consideration to Xiao Wang's family, did not explicitly put forward too many harsh regulations, and provided her with a down payment for the house, which eased the pressure on young people. So Xiao Wang was grateful and vowed to take good care of his wife in his life. When they were in love, their feelings were quite good, and they hardly made any noise. After marriage, they said nothing. Xiao Wang realized that he and his wife are basically people from two worlds. His wife has a little sister's temper, very arrogant and anxious.

As for Xiao Wang, he grew up in the countryside, made early progress, did things calmly, and was always in no hurry to solve problems. That's why he is often accused by his wife that he is a slovenly person and worse than a girl. Xiao Wang is a dutiful person and doesn't like the glitz in the city. His lifestyle is almost two o'clock. As for his wife, after work, she likes to meet three or five friends, either singing karaoke or dancing in bars. Xiao Wang is very resistant and cannot understand his wife's behavior. In his view, a married woman should take care of her family instead of just playing all day.