What does Najib mean?

Naji is one of China's marriage etiquette and the third of the six rites. After asking the name and matching the eight characters, the man informs the woman of the good omen of marriage and presents her engagement. This is etiquette.

Six manners in the process from marriage negotiation to marriage completion.

Namely: accept, ask the name, Najib, accept, invite and welcome.

Only then did the man's family ask the matchmaker to propose marriage to the woman's family, and the woman's family promised to propose marriage, and the man's family prepared gifts to propose marriage.

Ask the name, and the man's family asks the matchmaker to ask the woman's name and date of birth.

Naji, after the man retrieved the woman's name and eight characters, he divined in the ancestral hall.

Zheng Na, also known as Nabi, means that the man's family gives it to the woman's family as a dowry.

On the date of invitation, the man chooses the wedding date and prepares gifts to inform the woman's family for approval.

At the wedding reception, one or two days before the wedding, the woman sends a dowry and makes the bed, and the groom goes to the woman's house to get married the next day.

The footsteps of modern Najib

1, select auspicious month.

In the choice of month, the birthday and the woman's numerology are the main choices, and generally a suitable auspicious month will be chosen. Many auspicious months will avoid the March, July and September of the lunar calendar. These three months have Tomb-Sweeping Day, Meng Lanjie and Double Ninth Festival respectively, which is not suitable for holding happy events together.

Step 2 choose a wedding date

Ji Yue, exclude the days when you can't get married, and then choose the auspicious day of the zodiac. Mainly from nine o'clock. The good or ill luck of the stars, the twenty-eight stars on the twelfth floor and the nine planets are the key and the main judging factors. For example, when the nine planets are lucky stars, you can ignore the other two aspects of good luck.

Step 3 choose a wedding time

The specific wedding time mainly depends on the most auspicious moment of the twelve gods. The ecliptic is Qinglong, Tang Ming, Jingui, Tiande, Yutang and Siming; Master Ji. Mafia is a natural punishment, Suzaku, White Tiger, Tianlong, Xuanwu, Gou Chen, the main brother. In ancient times, Naji said that the man's family had the woman's birthday, and the eight characters matched. If these two characters match, then the marriage can continue to the next process.