Ambiguity between the opposite sex

1. Keep chatting for an hour every day. Many friends of the opposite sex are like this. They chat alone every day, talking about everything, sometimes for more than an hour every day. This relationship is actually very ambiguous, because even lovers will not keep such close contact, when you can chat like this every day without embarrassment. That means you already like each other, and you may feel it in your hearts. For example, you are very dependent on each other and will miss each other when you can't see each other. The key is that some friends of the opposite sex are ambiguous, or when both of them are in love, then this is a betrayal of the original love. This is actually a big problem. 2. Always trust each other unconditionally. Another situation is that after friends of the opposite sex get along for a period of time, they will have very embarrassing feelings and trust each other without doubt. When your relationship has reached this point, it actually means that your relationship is not normal. If you are both single, you can actually be together. But if you already have a partner, you should pay attention to the discretion between friends. You can't always get along alone, and don't always play ambiguous jokes on each other. Let the other person misunderstand your relationship. It is easy for the opposite sex to attract each other, and you are very close, so it is easy to like each other. 3, always thinking about whether there is pure friendship between the opposite sex, this is really a very tangled problem, because after friends of the opposite sex get along for a long time, they actually make the relationship very clear. For example, in the process of getting along, two people always think of each other, which seems to be just the concern between friends. In fact, it is difficult to tell clearly what the relationship is between them. Because if you are just friends, you don't need to always care about each other's thoughts, especially to understand each other's inner pain and helplessness, unless you like each other in your heart. That's why you care so much about each other. No matter what you do, you care about each other's inner thoughts. This relationship is definitely not simple, so you should pay more attention. How ambiguous is the chat? Chatting often says sweet words, and when you have a nickname, you are ambiguous. The ambiguous relationship between men and women is often reflected in the ambiguous chat process. Ambiguous men and women like to give each other a unique nickname when chatting. If this nickname is also called by someone else, that's nothing. If this nickname is a little secret between you two, then this relationship is somewhat ambiguous. At the beginning of the chat, although it was just some polite greetings, after a long time, the two people chatted more and more frequently. You will share some interesting things with each other, and each other's information will be answered in time. Although they didn't make the relationship clear, I believe they will realize it. In the process of chatting, he will say something ambiguous to you. When you reply to him, he will change the subject immediately, so you can only pretend that it never happened. In fact, when men and women are chatting on WeChat, you should pay attention to these behaviors, because the friendship between you is not so pure. The difference between boys' ambiguity and sincerity is that a boy often praises you, praises your beauty and expresses his appreciation and love for you. He will often praise your beauty in another way when chatting with you. Once something like this appears, it means that this man already likes you, and he is hinting at you. But in love, there are always some silly girls who think that boys are ambiguous and are willing to give everything for boys. However, this kind of effort has not been reciprocated by the boy's kindness, but it will lead to the boy abandoning her at will after he has no freshness. There is a clear difference between boys' ambiguity and liking. Ambiguity can never reach the level of boys' sincerity, so girls should know how to distinguish between boys' ambiguity and liking. There may be many people who are curious. Will boys become fond of it? Playing with ambiguity is different from liking, and playing with ambiguity is equivalent to one-night stand, which is irresponsible. Moreover, men who play ambiguous games are all over the street in love life. A girl who is cheated by an ambiguous man is easily cheated by countless men. So it is important to distinguish which men are playing with you. To tell the truth, the man who is having an affair with you is pretending to like you. However, his lust for you shows that he just wants to play an ambiguous trick with you. In fact, it is normal for men and women to have an affair, but what they ask is that girls should never take the sweet words of boys seriously! Perhaps many people are used to establishing social relations with the opposite sex in such an ambiguous form, but when ambiguity returns to ambiguity, how many people will really like their ambiguous objects? So ambiguity doesn't mean liking, but it doesn't mean ambiguity can't develop into liking. Aren't there many relationships based on ambiguity? Therefore, some ambiguity will really become like, provided that he is ambiguous with you, probably leaving with a good impression on you, rather than approaching you because of boredom and loneliness. The performance of ambiguity between the opposite sex 2 How to solve the problem if the wife is ambiguous with the opposite sex 1. Understand the reason why she is ambiguous. As long as she is not a woman in easy virtue, and she is having an affair with other members of the opposite sex, there must be a reason. Some women play ambiguous, but only for a while. Some women feel empty because their husbands are not around, or because they are busy at work, or because they are bewitched by other opposite sex, and so on. If you find your wife playing with another man on WeChat, first find out what she is playing. If it's your fault, be yourself at once. If there are other reasons, try to solve them one by one. 2. Make sure that your ambiguous wife is playing ambiguous to make men angry, but don't know who that man is to make men angry. The thought that the other person may be your buddy, your friend, or your colleague makes you feel very timid. Then since you know that your wife is having an affair, you have a way to know. Whether it's hearsay or seeing with your own eyes, you have to know who the other party is, at least know the other party's micro-signal, so that you can carry out your next action. Don't be angry with your wife, and don't tell anyone. Check quietly and take a clear picture of each other. 3. Don't give her too much space. Many men and women play with each other, but couples give more space. Everything pays attention to giving each other space, giving each other private space, so with space, the distance comes out and the feelings are out of order. Reduce the wife's space and then reduce it. She is your wife. Why give her so much space and time to have an affair with other men? She likes to use her mobile phone to close the room alone, with you beside her. She likes to whisper on the phone, so please be generous and ask who it is. In short, don't give your ambiguous wife too much so-called private space. You should remember that for an ambiguous wife, your tolerance can only be incompetent in her eyes. 4. Give her less so-called freedom. I had a mother of two children here the year before last, who eloped with a divorced man here with WeChat, leaving two daughters and an innocent husband at home. That husband dotes on his wife very much. As long as she is unhappy, she immediately squats outside the house until she agrees to let her in. Sometimes her wife goes out for a few days and asks the reason for traveling with her sisters. If she asks one more question, she will be scolded to death. If you ask me, such a wife is used to it. If you have a family, children and a husband, then you should be free to be yourself all day. Aren't you used to it? If you find such a wife ambiguous, cut off her "freedom" first, take care of your family first, and then talk about something else. 5, indirectly warned her that some women are embarrassed with other men, in fact, they don't want to betray their husbands, they don't want to cheat, they just want to find someone to chat, and unconsciously they become embarrassed. If this is the case with your wife, it is understandable that you don't need to be too strong with her, but it doesn't mean that you can let her develop. In that case, it may not necessarily develop to what extent. Besides, can you really turn a blind eye to a big man? In the face of a wife who is not very ambiguous, give her an indirect warning, such as chatting with her to show your opinion of a woman who is playing ambiguous. Seriously, let her know. I estimate that under normal circumstances, she will immediately find a way to solve the mature or immature ambiguous relationship.