Is your mother-in-law kind to you? What "small details" can be seen at a glance and can't be hidden?

Is your mother-in-law kind to you? What "small details" can be seen at a glance and can't be hidden? Key point 1: When a husband and wife quarrel, will her mother-in-law favor the most loving couple, and there will inevitably be quarrels, and the best way to see her mother-in-law's mind is whether she can have a fair attitude towards family disputes. These good mothers-in-law, who respect their daughters-in-law, will come forward to "seek justice" when quarreling at home. They will not be influenced by their own wishes, they can only be righteous, and if their son does something wrong, they will stand on the side of their daughter-in-law.

Some mother-in-law will choose to escape when quarreling at home, which is also their own business. As an old man, there is no need to mix. Looking back, these mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious families. In the event of an argument, the mother-in-law will be unprincipled in favoring the children. Even if the child did something wrong, she insisted on being "outside" and let her daughter-in-law be wronged. Mother-in-law is eccentric everywhere in her daily life and treats her daughter-in-law as a stranger. How can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be harmonious?

Key point two: I am willing to share the housework for you and respect your free choice. Many women take over the banner of housework after marriage, and their mother-in-law will take it for granted that women do housework, but rarely consider whether their daughter-in-law has her own life goals. These good mothers-in-law will pay attention to their daughter-in-law's choice after marriage, and they will not interfere too much, whether you choose to continue working or keep a house diligently. A good mother-in-law will also take the initiative to share some housework and forbid her daughter-in-law to be too tired.

But these evil mothers-in-law are completely different. They think it is natural for women to do housework. Even after a hard day outside, you should cook, wash clothes and pack things when you get home. You are not so much a daughter-in-law as a 24-hour domestic nanny in this family. The value of your existence is only to make men live more comfortably. A harmonious family needs the joint efforts and commitment of Qi Xin and his wife. If your mother-in-law can't treat you equally, it means that you are just an individual in her heart.

Key point 3: When you face setbacks in your daily life, you are willing to consider and help you. If there is little contact between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is difficult to see contradictions and bad feelings from your feelings. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not very familiar with each other and have experienced the twists and turns of daily life, it is not obvious whether she regards you as a member of this family. My good friend Xiao Mu once told me that although his mother-in-law seldom talks and doesn't show much to him, she always knows how to care.

During the period when he had just given birth to a child, the boy couldn't come back on a business trip, and his parents happened to be ill at home. Just when she was at a loss, her mother-in-law came to the hospital to accompany her for 24 hours and take good care of her. Since then, Xiao Mu has always had a good relationship with her mother-in-law. Although the two places are usually separated and rarely meet, they can be very warm as soon as they meet. Looking back, these mother-in-law and daughter-in-law families are not harmonious, and the mother-in-law is not even willing to talk to her daughter-in-law, let alone go to the hospital to accompany her and take care of her.