Should office romance be made public? How to treat office romance?

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How many couples of workplace love can happen around you?

How many couples have you met who have been walking?

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Workplace romance is something that many people in the workplace will encounter, so how should we treat office romance in workplace life?

There is an office romance that hides the real situation of getting married in the same company for better development.

This kind of hidden marriage office romance is also chosen by both parties in real life.

About the office romance in the workplace, there are about three attitudes of different companies:

First, I am very opposed to office romance. Such companies are more concerned that office romance will affect the attitude of both parties to work; If one party has some problems, it may lead to bad consequences for two people.

Second, I don't object to office romance. I can fall in love, as long as it doesn't affect my work.

The third is to support office romance. I hope that the two sides can cooperate better in the workplace and bring good benefits to the company.

There are good and bad office romances.

If two people fall in love in the workplace, they would have concealed the love situation, but later they were known by colleagues, especially if one of the top executives was a small clerk. If a small employee is promoted because of his own efforts, most colleagues will secretly discuss that he was promoted because of his love relationship, which actually reflects people's jealousy.

If two people don't fall in love at work, don't talk about work in life, can talk about life and work well, and their working ability can be convincing, this office romance will naturally be appreciated by management and blessed by colleagues.

However, there is one awkward point about office romance. If two people begin to fall in love, it will be very harmonious and sweet, but then it will develop slowly, and there will be quarrels and differences. After breaking up, two people will always meet in the company, and the atmosphere will become very embarrassing. Some colleagues will talk about two people behind their backs. After all, curiosity and gossip are human nature. You can control yourself, but you can't control what others say.

In any case, office romance is inevitable in the workplace.

Because if you didn't fall in love when you were a student, you rarely have much time to meet new friends when you enter the workplace. Although there are many online dating platforms, many people have never met and don't know much about them.

Because there is no larger circle of friends at ordinary times, long-term contact in the office is bound to have a good impression on a colleague, which increases the possibility of office romance.

And working together makes it easier to understand each other's personality characteristics, work ability and so on. So many opportunities to know each other will naturally promote the emotional exchange between two people.

The biggest drawback of office romance is that on the basis of affection, both parties will take advantage of their positions to do something that harms the interests of the company.

For example, the man is the person in charge of a project, and the woman is the customer who is responsible for choosing cooperation in this project, but the customer chosen by the woman is not very suitable for this project, or the company itself is unreliable, but the man still agrees to cooperate with such customers, but in fact the woman chooses this customer because she has received a red envelope.

This wrong practice of lovers has brought harm to the interests of the company, and it has also made many company bosses unable to accept office romance.

If you don't run away from love and start an office romance, you should keep it a secret first. Secrecy can make office romance last longer, because if you don't want to be found by colleagues and leaders, you will pay attention to it at work and increase your working ability.

In addition, once you start an office romance, in order not to bring trouble to the company, it is also a good practice to let one party resign, preferably the one with strong working ability, so as to protect the other party's work. After all, gold can shine everywhere.

This practice will not only make the company embarrassed, but also better develop the feelings of both sides.

Office romance has both advantages and disadvantages. If it can be handled well, this relationship can last a lifetime. If it is not handled well, it will not only make people gossip, but also may not get good opportunities at work and waste their feelings.

Encountered an unreliable object betrayed and forced to break up and resign.

Some men are reluctant to disclose their office romance in the workplace, ostensibly for their career development, but in fact they use their single status to pick up girls everywhere.

When encountering an object with bad personality and hidden feelings, women should stop loss in time, and don't be blinded by feelings and bought off by the rhetoric of "love rat".

For girls, this kind of injury is not only the loss of their jobs, but also their reputation and emotional impact. They have lost a good business circle and have to start from scratch. Three elements of love growth in the workplace: 1. Deep understanding. 2. Long-term companionship 3. Shell selection.

People in the workplace are almost transparent to each other, because it is difficult to hide what they are, who they are and what their personality is after being together for a long time. So we can get to know each other better.

Whether the lover is a colleague or a boss, the most important thing to determine the relationship is to fully and deeply understand each other's situation.

Including whether he is really single, whether his personality is good or not, and whether he is born to pick up girls.

There are often plots of office romance in many workplace TV dramas and movies, and some plots may rarely appear in reality, but it is undeniable that office romance is also a situation that many people will care about in the real workplace.

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Although it is true that many people's office romances have turned out to be positive results, the woman is pregnant and gives birth to a child, and the man has to take paternity leave after his wife gives birth to a child, which has also caused some impact on the company and lost some benefits. If leaders find someone to replace their jobs during maternity leave, they may really be replaced, which is one of the reasons why some women in the workplace become housewives after giving birth.

If you want to start an office romance, you should first consider what will happen, whether it will affect your work and so on. If you really think about it, it's not too late to start again. After all, people can't run in the same working environment.

A person's attitude towards office romance is the lowest standard to judge whether he is professional or not.

If you can't tell feelings from work, what career can you talk about?

Feelings are emotional and the workplace is rational.

A professional in the workplace will never allow feelings to interfere with his work, which is the most basic professional ethics.

Many parties to office romances think they are professionals, and they can see the difference.

It's all wishful thinking.

This kind of psychology will destroy the normal colleague relationship and the normal operation and management of the company.

I wonder what you think of office romance?

Do you think workplace romance is reliable?

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