Help to interpret the seventeenth hexagram in the Book of Changes, and the shock fluctuates with Razer.

You want to take the initiative to get each other, but for some reason, you feel very insecure. You want to put forward some ideas, but you did it rashly, and your family has some opinions about it. In this matter, you and the other party are opposites-you are in an advantageous position, the other party has the initiative, and the other party has another candidate. Your marriage is not here, it should be next year.