Bad karma of cohabitation

I wrote this article based on my real life experience. I want to write to more people, so that they don't get hurt by prostitution, and then embark on the evil road of prostitution like me, so as to have a healthy and lively life. I want to use this article to eliminate the lust and pain of me and other sentient beings like me! May all those who read this article get rid of the shackles of prostitution and get real liberation. I write down my experience, hoping that the right person can learn my lesson deeply and don't follow my footsteps and fall into the abyss of pain.

I met him at work. He is ten years older than me. He lied to me that he was single because his mind was confused by lewd thoughts. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend two years ago and have a three-year-old son. Later, I was carried away by lewdness and confused by his rhetoric. The two met quietly and chatted happily. The idea of two people is very simple. It would be great if parents could agree to get married and start a family. But my parents don't approve of us being together. My parents can see that this man has secrets and never tells the truth. They think he is insincere and lying. So I can't be with him, but he encouraged me to leave home and live together when I was just an adult and had not entered the WTO deeply. From then on, I had a nightmare.

There are indeed many people who live in prostitution without knowing it. In Beishangguang, many young people who come from other places to work here want to live together, because cohabitation leads to disharmony, unsatisfactory work and meager income. If they knew that cohabitation was a very important reason for all this, they wouldn't be stupid. I don't have a particularly good writing style, so let's talk about what happened to me. But I don't know many specific and profound things, so I don't know that the result of unmarried cohabitation is so powerful! My boyfriend and I had a very good relationship at first, because he wandered alone in the big city, so we lived together because of love. We often have fornication, but we didn't know it at that time and thought we were very happy. It hurts to think about it now! Because he doesn't love me, he just takes advantage of my infatuation and treats me like a fool. I am really sorry for my parents, sorry for myself, and I regret it very much.

At that time, my parents understood his thoughtfulness, so they wanted me to turn back by breaking off the relationship. I wasted two years of my youth with him without hesitation. My father was angry with me for running away from home and went to the hospital. I wanted to see my father, but he said my father pretended to be sick and tricked me into going back. Until today, my father had a heart attack. I am really unfilial. Although my father forgave me after I broke up with him, my father's heart was broken because of all the pain I suffered because of cohabitation and adultery. Irretrievable consequences (don't live together before marriage, it's too harmful).

But slowly, I found that my work was particularly unsatisfactory, and I would be scolded by my clients and misunderstood and bullied by my colleagues for no reason. And I used to value my leadership very much and began to have opinions on me. I used to be a very lucky person, but suddenly everything that belonged to me was taken away by others! I am unhappy at work every day, complaining. In desperation, I had to resign and plan to find another job. But I can't find a good job again. I was too lazy to do it before, and I felt very frustrated. At the same time, I found that I had a lot of acne on my back, but I couldn't find the reason, so I had to stick to it, which was very uncomfortable!

I was in a trance during the days when I was looking for a job. Take a taxi and leave your mobile phone in the car, leave your new shoes in the subway after buying shoes, and so on. And during that time, I relied on my parents to help me, but as long as the money reached me, it would flow out quickly, either losing money or wasting it! And I used to be an operator, relying on a particularly slippery mouth, but during that time I stuttered, and I couldn't understand what others said when I was with my friends, and my friends gradually alienated me! Finally, they all pretended not to know me and stayed away from me. Before they left, they just said that your boyfriend was not good to you. We tried to persuade you many times before, but we couldn't help you. In the end, we were strangers.

At that time, my life was a mess. Looking for a job is either working at night or under great pressure! And the people around me are also very unfriendly to me. I was going to take an exam or something, but it turned out to be all kinds of difficulties. I feel like a different person and live a different life, which is the last thing I want. At that time, I was stupid, thinking that I had lost a lot, but I could keep my love. As a result, my boyfriend began to yell at me, look down on me, beat and scold me, which made me desperate, because he was not like this before. Every time he hits me, it's a hard hand. My face and hands are black and blue, as if we had a deep hatred. When I live with my boyfriend, I always cry, often once every three days. Moreover, he flirted with other strange girls on WeChat, and I put up with it. It was not until later that he slapped me twice that I saw stars. I was desperate, and my friends around me advised me to stay away from love rat and respect myself. It is also a coincidence that I saw the article about bad karma, which corresponds to my experience. I just suddenly realized! Ah, it turns out that cohabitation without marriage is a crime! The result is true! I knew these results before, but I was carried away by lust, and two slaps woke me up! I would also like to thank the kind people who sent messages on the Internet to keep me away from prostitution and awaken my conscience.

My boyfriend even lied to me about marrying me and broke up with his ex-girlfriend. He also encouraged me to pretend to be ill and cheat me out of my dowry of 20 thousand yuan to pay back his credit card, used my loan to buy a battery car, and even told me to borrow money from all my relatives and friends. Hit me with your fist when you are a little unhappy. Later, I got pregnant. He kicked me in the stomach and hit me on the head. His friend called me a fool behind my back. Write down my experience today, just to tell people who are destined to read this article not to believe in cause and effect! Don't commit adultery, put all evil first! What a sin. It turned out that I was very happy, but I couldn't stand the temptation and lost many things, including a stable job. Later, for the so-called liar boyfriend, he was heavily in debt and finally went to the hospital for lifelong infertility.

My mother didn't agree with us from the beginning. When I left home, my mother cried and cried very sadly. And I won't appease my mother, and I don't have a good relationship with my mother. Besides, my mother didn't really talk to me. She demanded that his family have no financial strength. I complain very much about my mother. I was really confused. We had sex, and I even wanted to get pregnant and have a baby for him. At that time, everyone liked children very much and wanted children. Parents can't bear to get pregnant. Moreover, I have seen some unmarried pregnant women come to no good end before. I also want to get married soon in my heart. I was lucky. This lesson is tragic. I am really shameless. Don't do it just because you see that others can't resist getting pregnant and getting married. You may not have as many blessings as others. But my parents don't agree. I want to do it step by step, so I can't worry. And when he met my parents, he just cheated and avoided the problem of marriage. The tragedy happened when I seriously wanted to have a baby and marry him, but he didn't love me but used me. He doesn't care about my children, and he hurts my children. I'm deeply sorry. I'm sorry there is no little life in this world. The end result is that I am shameless and have nothing.

The result of separation is that on the one hand, I have to bear the scolding of my parents and scold me for not listening to my parents. On the other hand, I have to bear the pain of being abandoned. I have never let go of my feelings for him, and I love and hate him in my heart, and I am entangled in pain again and again. Today, I reflected that I shouldn't commit adultery and didn't respect my parents' advice. Marriage is not a child's play, and marriage is not a matter for two people, but a matter for two families. Feelings are also very good, and I am sure that even if you don't get married, or don't dare to commit adultery, there will be bad results. Prostitution destroys a person's luck and may shorten or even end their fate. I suggest you don't live together without marriage, which will make your marriage worse. What if parents disagree? I didn't understand why a marriage without parents' blessing would be unhappy. After such a tragic emotional injury, I realized that I was getting married. Both parents love their children and don't want their children to suffer. Parents don't agree to long-term contact, and neither side has the heart to argue together. Maybe one of them is bored and bored, betraying their original heart and breaking our promise. If both parents agree, the two people who love each other have no external force to interfere at all, and they are pushing both sides to develop in a good direction. What a nice environment.

My experience of blood and tears tells me that everyone must stick to unmarried and not cohabiting, even if they break up, it will do little harm to both sides. Breaking up together will bring endless pain to the one who has not let go of his feelings and will bear the mental torture of being abandoned. Feelings are sometimes really fragile, and the last straw may ruin the feelings that have been established hard. Therefore, when you are in love, don't care how charming his vows are, you must act according to the rules. We must put an end to premarital sex, cohabitation and adultery. It's really not worth a moment of sensual pleasure and a long-term pain after breaking up.

I was going to get married after living together for a while. Unexpectedly, after living together for a year, I found that he had no intention of getting married at all; Under questioning, he said that he wanted to live together all the time and had no burden to relax, so he finally broke up. "Everything is my problem. I have been complaining before, and I am surrounded by complaints and hatred. In fact, all the pain is inspired by my disrespect for cause and effect and my addiction to prostitution. Here, I want to warn you through my true karma that if you don't find someone, you must not commit adultery. What attracts you is an dissatisfied wife or husband. If you have someone, you must not commit adultery, which will break up the family and let the loving couple go their separate ways.

If I live an honest and clean life and refuse premarital sex, maybe it won't end like this, then I will be happier than now. I realize that all virtues of filial piety come first, so I should listen to my parents. There must be parents' reasons for parents' disagreement, so I must keep the bottom line of protecting myself, cherish my body, stay away from lewdness, refuse premarital sex, and lead a totally clean life. I really regret it now. No matter whether you have an object or not, adultery will make you lose everything, wealth, lover, family, body and career will leave you, and all you get is a wretched face, a turbid mind and an extremely weak body, so never commit adultery. Don't know that I will turn back until I have lost everything. I must remember that it was because of my previous fornication that I was inspired by this result. Boys don't want to hook up with girls. Only by being a gentleman can they attract a virtuous wife. Girls should not be dissolute and wear revealing clothes, such as low-cut dresses, knee-high skirts, bare backs and navel. Never. Karma won't let anyone go. Whether you admit it or not, believe it or not, karma exists.

Many men think that cohabitation itself may be a hint of not getting married. If the woman raises an objection during cohabitation and asks for marriage, she may have been married by then. In other words, men are eager to get married before cohabitation, but after cohabitation, their feelings are satisfied, and it doesn't matter whether they get married or not. If at this time, I am under the pressure of my girlfriend who is eager to get married, I will subconsciously want to escape responsibility immediately, and then my feelings will gradually fade away and I don't want to be bound by marriage. Under this premise, once a man doesn't want to be responsible, breaking up is very simple. Although living together can get to know each other better, it will also expose itself to each other. The biggest risk of cohabitation trial marriage is to slowly let the other party lose their "desire to get married." This is also the biggest cause of emotional breakdown. The consequences of prostitution (don't live together before marriage, it's too harmful)

Emotional overdraft marriage is boring: we have the ability to repay material consumption in advance. This kind of early marriage attempt and consumption has obviously exceeded the repayment ability of many people. The passion and happiness of marriage are advanced, and the rest are only fatigue and boredom. The intervention of various realistic factors makes life together feel dull. No wonder the survey data show that couples who get married through cohabitation are more likely to divorce than couples who don't. So don't live together, please put an end to premarital sex, it's really bad to be irresponsible to your body.

Foreign studies have found that couples who live together first and then get married are more likely to have problems such as affair, alcoholism and drug abuse after marriage than ordinary couples. The authoritative domestic violence agency in the United States also found that there is more violence in cohabitation than in marriage, and the proportion of violence between cohabiting partners is twice that between husband and wife. Among them, the proportion of serious violence is five times that of married people. In cohabitation, the proportion of women suffering from depression is five times that of married women.

In fact, among people suffering from depression, cohabiting women rank second, second only to women who have divorced more than twice. The rate of mental illness among cohabitants is twice that of all married people. In fact, the cohabitation relationship is indeed unstable. Through a national survey in the United States, it is found that the rate of "stealing vegetables" by cohabiting men is four times higher than that of ordinary husbands. Although on average, the proportion of women cheating is lower than that of men, the proportion of cohabiting women cheating is still eight times that of married women.

The main argument of many people who support trial marriage is to "try" for a period of time before marriage. Help each other adapt and improve the success rate of marriage in the future. Unfortunately, this is just an illusion. The survey found that the divorce rate of cohabiting couples is 50% higher than that of ordinary couples. The study also found that as many as 40% of couples will never get married after living together. Cohabitation couples have an 80% chance of breaking up, and 40% people break up before they walk down the red carpet. Another 40% divorced within 10 years, which shows that the reasons for supporting trial marriage are untenable. So once the bride is not you, what harm will cohabitation bring before marriage?

First, physical injury.

Cohabitation before marriage can easily lead to unintended pregnancy. After pregnancy, innocent children can only be aborted because there is no legal marriage as a guarantee. First of all, you have to bear the pain on the operating table, and secondly, you may be infertile for life because of unsuccessful abortion or too many times. There are also some unmarried men and women who stage uncooked rice to cook mature rice because their parents beat Yuanyang. However, before making this decision, we must first make preparations for no bride price or wedding.

Second, emotional harm.

Although many women are very open to cohabitation before marriage, most unmarried women must take true love or future marriage as the premise when choosing cohabitation partners. Once living together, especially after having an abortion, being mercilessly abandoned will bring great harm to women's feelings. Even some men lack a sense of responsibility. After hearing the news of pregnancy from their cohabiting girlfriend, they suddenly disappeared without a trace. At this time, the girl is so helpless-afraid to tell her parents about her pregnancy and ashamed to tell her friends. Finally, she ran to the hospital and walked to the operating table alone. Faced with this situation, what we want to ask is: As a woman, is it necessary to hurt yourself like this?

Third, the reputation is damaged.

Start a romantic cohabitation life, and your friends and colleagues, as well as friends and colleagues of the other side, will be known to everyone. Once cohabitation fails, your reputation is actually damaged before you face a new relationship. Meet some unkind friends again, make a few sarcastic remarks behind your back, or give you a hard time. Will the new love be smooth sailing? However, life is like this. We must bear all that we have done. We can't control other people's mouths, but we can definitely control our actions. Living together before marriage, others will inevitably make an objective evaluation of you with colored glasses.

Fourth, the damage of love concept.

In the love stage, men and women who love deeply but fail to get married in the end often have many years of fear and confusion about love after the failure of love, and may gradually become leftover men and women. When you reach the age when you have to get married, you will hastily find yourself a partner, which is what everyone often says, "Marry for the sake of marriage." But will such a marriage be happy? If you don't live together before marriage, just fall in love, the damage will be reduced by at least half, and the healing time will be shortened by at least half.

Fifth, the harm of outlook on life.

The most intuitive expression of the pessimism of lovelorn is listlessness or distraction in life, study and work. In the unit, all leaders are waiting for employees who have the ability to work, and the only thing they can get is not to be reused or even fired. At this moment, it is easy to fall into the double blow of emotion and work, thus feeling that there are ruthless people around, leading to pessimism, and a few people may even have suicidal thoughts.

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Sixth, the harm of new life.

More than 20% unmarried women will think about giving birth to their children after discovering that they are pregnant; There are also 80% unmarried women who choose abortion. For the latter, it itself is hurting an unformed life; For the former, after a child is born, he often doesn't know how to face his parents and the world. They usually give their children away or take extreme actions to hurt themselves. I believe that these abortions or child injuries will make a woman feel guilty all her life. Her behavior is so extreme that she even puts herself on the road to crime.

So why do people who live together before marriage have so many bad consequences? As we know, fornication is one of the most harmful behaviors, and the so-called "head of all evils" is a very serious immoral behavior. Moreover, the scourge is the fastest and heaviest. Once we commit adultery, retribution will soon come, which will not only lead to career failure, but also seriously consume the blessings of our marriage and make our marriage unhappy. And unmarried cohabitation belongs to lewdness, which will bring us great pain. Such as cheating, domestic violence, depression and so on. As mentioned above, couples who live together have an 80% chance of breaking up, and most of them can't live together forever. It can be said that once you live together before marriage, you have almost bid farewell to a happy marriage. Everyone must pay attention to this problem! The consequences of prostitution (don't live together before marriage, it's too harmful)

Unmarried cohabitation is an informal marriage, and it will be easy to do informal work. There are few benefits for contract workers, temporary workers, assistants or people who help others. Unmarried cohabitation is to enjoy married life in advance, and the fruit is delicious when it is ripe. The fruit is still in the growing period, so it is very small and bitter to pick it hastily and eat it. Most unmarried cohabitants live in a narrow working space and have a hard life.

The marriage of unmarried cohabitation does not belong to you legally, and the house certainly does not belong to you. It is easy to rent a small room to live in. Why is the house small? Because the fruit is immature and small. Now some people are legally married, but they still live in rented houses or houses bought with loans. You can observe whether they have lived together unmarried before. (This article may be controversial, please don't compare it with the people in Dafu Daily. )

Unmarried cohabitation encourages seedlings to wither and it is easy to break up. Unmarried cohabitation means not wanting to wait and eager to experience married life. It will happen in life that people who are in a hurry are crowded, such as crowded buses and subways. Waiting for a long time, queuing for dinner, queuing for shopping, etc. Unmarried cohabitation means that without the consent and knowledge of family members and relatives, they will stay away from their families and even go to places where there are few relatives and friends in other places.

Unmarried cohabitation is easy to abort, because unmarried cohabitation itself is a matter of damaging yin and virtue, damaging yin and virtue, attracting evil with evil, and easily aborting. Cohabitation without marriage is childish. In many aspects of life and work, your thoughts and actions will be considered immature and despised by the public. Unmarried cohabitation is to enjoy the life of two people in advance. After the failure of cohabitation, there will be a long period of loneliness, living in a lonely environment and paying the price for the previous behavior. My story is a terrible case, please take a warning, don't live together unmarried, please lead an honest and clean life.

The tree of marriage, the fruit matures naturally, and it will fall naturally if it is not picked. Marriage, when the time comes, comes uninvited. Now people are in a hurry and can't wait to eat this immature fruit. Even if the fruit has just grown a little, pick it and eat it. Can this fruit be delicious? Unmarried cohabitation is against the laws of nature. If you violate the laws of nature, you will be punished by them. I hope young people don't rush to eat bitter, small and immature fruits, and wait until the fruits are ripe. The above is common for unmarried cohabitation, please don't compare with people in Dafu newspaper. Generally, the above situation will basically happen to the lucky people.

Cohabitation before marriage belongs to lewdness, and all kinds of lewdness are the first, and the result of lewdness is the fastest and most violent. As we know, fornication is one of the most harmful behaviors, and the so-called "head of all evils" is a very serious immoral behavior. And the scourge is the fastest and fastest. Once we commit adultery, the consequences will come the fastest, which will not only lead to career failure, but also seriously consume the blessings of our marriage and make our marriage unhappy. Unmarried cohabitation belongs to fornication, which will bring us great pain, such as domestic violence, husband-wife quarrel, infidelity, depression, suicide, poor health, unsatisfactory studies and career, divorce and so on. Moreover, cohabiting couples have eight chances, and most of them can't grow old together. Therefore, once you live together before marriage, you have almost bid farewell to a happy marriage. Everyone must be careful not to take detours. Advise everyone to stay away from lewdness and never live together unmarried, you will pay the price!