Why is the courtship of African Hamer women the cruelest way in the world?

There are nearly 50,000 people in Hamer nationality, who have always adhered to ancient customs, marriage and culture. They live in the rich Om Valley, where generations of Hamos people have been raised. They live a life of farming and herding, and their cattle and sheep, like our modern cars and houses, are symbols of this tribe's wealth. Incredibly, most men in this group don't do their jobs and like to make up. They have all the decorations of this woman, and some even have a flower. When they go out every day, they always bring a wooden stool and a wooden stick. They never brush their teeth. The stick in their mouth is used to whiten their teeth. There are several earrings or earrings in their ears, which means that he has several wives.

Heroes of this tribe will wear flower feathers, while women of this tribe will mix vegetable oil with butter and ochre powder, then make their hair into wisps, and put the mixed things on their hair with red braids, which is a symbol of women in Harmo. However, women's status in the tribe is very low, and many jobs are done by women. Men do nothing, women do everything, but even so, these poor women still have to bear a special and cruel way of courtship.

For thousands of years, all ethnic groups have maintained an ancient adult ceremony, which is called the running of cattle festival. Only the relatively wealthy families in the tribe can hold such a rite of passage. Because there are many people present at the bar mitzvah, we should invite everyone to eat several meals. This tribe is held several times a year, and there is no fixed time. When relatives and friends in the ethnic group meet, they all start with kissing. Men wear makeup and women wear bells on their legs. When everyone is here, the sacred rite of passage will begin. Girls in the ethnic group will play the trumpet when they see the boys they like. As soon as the opening ceremony began, the boys in the group danced the cow dance on the stage.

I don't care how girls feel. At this time, everyone can express their love to the man they like. When you see men and women you like, you will flock to them. They will give their vines to their courtship partners and want them to beat themselves with vines. Women show their backs and let them whip. At this time, they will not be soft. They will pick up the whip and lash it at the woman they like. There was a loud flogging at the scene, as well as the songs and trumpets of the women of this tribe. Perhaps in the eyes of modern people, this is an incredible act, but for people in the tribe, it is really a scar of love without blood. The harder a man smokes, the deeper he loves. Really, they can only use scars and "happiness" to describe the back of Hammer's woman.

It can be said that this is the most "cruel" way of courtship in the world, which is difficult for us modern people to accept. But from the perspective of the development of human society, it is easy to understand. The high status of ethnic minority women shows that women are the labor force of ethnic minorities. The better a woman is, the easier it is for him to win a man's good feeling, which is the same as our boys attracting girls with material ability.