How to do long-distance love well in the cold war?

The cold war in long-distance love is actually a very troublesome thing. Many long-distance lovers broke up because of the long cold war. The influence of the cold war on feelings is really great. So how can a long-distance relationship be reconciled?

How can a long-distance relationship be reconciled with the Cold War?

1, wrong message, wrong number

If it is really embarrassing sometimes, I will teach you a special method, such as sending the wrong text message or dialing the wrong number. It's just a question of who takes the first step. As soon as the other party sees that your message is really wrong, they will chat with each other, and then it will be natural. If this quarrel is mostly your fault, it is estimated that you can't coax a few tricks. What the other person cares about is whether you know that you are wrong and won't do it again. Therefore, it is necessary to admit your mistake, show sincerity and let the other party know that you really want to apologize.

Tell a joke that you two often play.

When two people are good, there must be a lot of their own little jokes. You can casually tell that little joke in the specific scene that the joke needs. It is estimated that the other party will laugh, and the ice has melted at this moment.

What about the long-distance love cold war?

1, re-establish trust

Because of the contradictions accumulated for a long time together, let the other side have a psychological defense against you, and he will not accept you again until you eliminate it. You can change yourself, rebuild your interest through some communication skills, and guide the other person to love you well. You can invite each other at the right time to further develop your feelings.

Step 2 say a few sweet words

In fact, what you say doesn't have to be sweet, but it must be sincere, which can show that you really love her, love her in a down-to-earth way and are willing to be with her. The distance between you makes him very helpless, and he has also paid a lot for this relationship. But I hope you can hold on, get through the darkness, and you can usher in a bright tomorrow. Girls are emotional animals, but after hearing these sweet words, they will feel warm and forgive you.

3. Keep a life frequency with each other.

Because of the present space, lovers in different places have less direct contact, so they can't watch movies together or date hand in hand. But if two people can do one thing at the same time and then share it with each other, it is still a romantic thing to find the same topic for two people who are far apart. For example, we meet to go to the cinema to see a movie, and then two people call to talk about the content of the movie, so that we can feel each other's existence even if we are in a different place.

4. Friendship

Companionship is the longest confession. For many girls, it is a boy's obscure dedication and companionship that moves her most. When a boy puts down all his work and goes to another place to find this girl, the girl's heart will be very touched.

What about a long-distance love quarrel?

The cold war of 1 will not last more than three days, and the two will communicate quietly and have a heart-to-heart talk. If one party is in a bad mood, then the other party must not be angry or impatient, and must coax the other party until the other party is happy. If it's because of the other party, you must tell yourself that you can fight hard, but be good after the fight.

Pay attention to let the other person know that you love him or her very much and are sincere. If you can't get in touch during the day, say sorry and forgive you before going to bed or getting up in the morning.

If you can't make jokes, such as "I don't know if I like others", it will only undermine the confidence of the other party and create an unpleasant atmosphere.

4. Keep in touch in time by SMS, telephone, Internet, etc. Failure to communicate in time will make the other party feel strange.

How to maintain a long-distance relationship?

First, keep communication and don't drop the line.

Whether it is a long-distance relationship or not, communication is very important. Two people in different cities, the pace of life and environmental impact are completely different. Therefore, the emotional changes of the other party are also very uncertain. You can't directly observe some changes in TA face to face, but you can only spread the sound thousands of miles away. If you can make good use of some chat tools to warm up your feelings, then distance will produce beauty. So, when your lover needs you, comfort him in time. Especially when the woman is sad and wronged, you should accompany her in time, whether by phone or WeChat. Because if you often disconnect, she is likely to fall into the arms of others.

Second, create surprises in life.

Give each other a surprise and meet each other in the surprise. Surprise is always the preservative of love, and no couple doesn't like the unexpected gifts carefully prepared by each other. Young couples with imagination and creativity will not only have surprise meetings, but also create some special romance through some online ways, thus winning the smile of their lovers, which is a powerful guarantee for their unchanging feelings.

Third, the true expression of emotion.

Long-distance lovers themselves rely on cold tools to communicate, and the true tone and emotions at that time may not be expressed normally. If you still hide your true feelings, you will lose your sense of security and think that you are not serious about your feelings, so you must let the other person know that you are thinking of him/her and do something for your feelings.