Chatting and communicating actively is naturally very popular.

Active chatting is naturally very popular.

How can I chat with the lady I like actively and naturally, and still have a good impression on you? In fact, it is also simple, that is, to master three points:

1, without overstepping, talk about the topics that should be discussed at the current relationship level.

2. Talk about girls' favorite topics.

3. Keep 30% mysterious.

First, talk about the topic that should be discussed at the current relationship level, that is, what to talk about at what stage, and don't talk nonsense or vulgar love words. The relationship between a stranger and a lover can be divided into four stages: the stranger stage-the friend stage-the ambiguous stage-the lover stage. Each stage corresponds to a relationship hierarchy. For example, the unfamiliar stage is what we call classmates, colleagues, teachers and students or passers-by. The connection between you and her is only the connection between your group and her group, not specific to individuals.

The friend stage means that the other party has a general understanding of the other party's basic information, but rarely involves in-depth communication. An affair is the so-called "friendship, lovers are not full." Intimacy means that you have become lovers. Before you speak, you must decide whether your relationship level is suitable for saying such things.

For example, when you just met, don't ask questions every day. Always say I'll buy you what you want to eat. Pay attention to whether she looks pale today. Is your period coming? -because this kind of care and love should at least be an ambiguous relationship. Many boys don't know their current relationship level, and they always chat across stages, which inevitably leads to a wall.

For example, some people are still in the friendship stage, but they are already planning to get married; I am so stiff that even ordinary friends can hardly do it, but I am still asking for help.

No matter what form it is, you will find that every time you speak, the other party will not reply without two sentences, and even directly scare the girls away.

2. Talk about some topics that girls are basically interested in. If you still don't know what to talk about when you see here, try to talk to her about some basic topics that girls like, such as food, pets, travel, entertainment gossip and constellations.

Why these five topics? Most girls like delicious food and interesting things, and are more interested in gossip and constellations. Pets represent loyalty, and people subconsciously think that pet owners are caring. Each of these topics can extend into many sub-topics, such as constellations and entertainment gossip, and it is easy to transition to emotional topics. Food and tourism are neutral hot topics, and we can definitely talk about them.

3. Keep yourself mysterious. You can chat with girls in the middle, but the content of the chat is not completely finished. The way to keep suspense is to keep the other person interested in you. It's easy for girls to get into your mind when they make up this matter. Women are perceptual thinking, and it is easy to fill things with their brains.

For example, in her eyes, you seem to be very bad at chatting and a little dull, so her brain supplement may be a bad boy. On the contrary, if you are good at chatting, her brain will think that you are still a good boy. In the right way, in fact, to make a girl take the initiative and make a woman like you, the first step is to make her miss you constantly. You will be more active if you keep 30% mystery.