I have many good friends, but I don't have a best friend.

I often hear many people call their friends who have a good relationship with them "girlfriends"; If it's the opposite sex, it's called "male girlfriends".

I don't know when this word became popular, except that it has never been said from my mouth so far; In my eyes, she will always be a strange but precious existence.

I have many good friends; In our spare time, we will also get together to go shopping, and we will help and support each other when necessary; Sometimes we will spit out the beautiful things we have encountered recently and send blessings on each other's birthdays; But I know it's just between good friends, not between best friends.

Sometimes, we will know who the girlfriends of some stars are through some entertainment gossip; We will also learn through entertainment gossip that girlfriends who used to be inseparable are strangers in an instant.

As I write here, I automatically locate two groups of stars in my mind, namely Zhang Hefan, and Yang and surnamed tang stars who have been praised by many people. They may be best friends in the circle. Of course, I don't know if they said these things themselves, or if some boring people have nothing to do and give them automatic classification; There is no smoke without fire, there must still be some real possibilities; But then they finally broke the hearts of many fans, became strangers, and some even became enemies.

If this is the general public's understanding of this word, I naturally understand why so many people can have many girlfriends at the same time, but only help some ordinary friends when they encounter problems; I also understand why there is such a thing as being a best friend in person, but sitting behind it is dumbfounded.

Unfortunately, I don't have a best friend, so I also avoided many heartbreaking moments.

I remember when I first bought a car, a few friends who usually had more contact asked me to drive them to have a picnic. On weekends, I deliberately get up early and put on clothes that they may not publicize; After informing them to meet at one of them, I drove to my friend's house;

On the way there, their urging tone made me subconsciously speed up the throttle; When crossing a section, the tire was patched and suddenly it was flat; I had to stop at the side of the road and wait for my boyfriend to help me change the tire.

I was in a bad mood when I needed to change the tires of my new car. After I calmed down for a long time, I sent them such a message:

"The tire was cut. I'll fix it first. "

"all right! I thought you'd be here soon? Looking at the news sent back by WeChat, I don't know how to feel a bit eye-catching.

After grinding for three hours, the car is finally ready. When my boyfriend asked me to drive to the appointment, I refused to go straight home.

"Has the car been repaired? Are you still coming? If you don't come, we will go shopping "; Another message flashed on WeChat.

"Haven't repaired. Go ahead and make an appointment next time. " I shook my head, smiled, opened a book in the room and read it.

I just want to say: this is not a best friend. At most, we only meet someone who has chatted at that stage of our lives, but as time goes by, that person will gradually disappear in the next stage of our lives; Best friends are not like this. It took us a long time to identify her. Once found, it is a lifetime.

of course，

I believe that some people are so lucky that they find a real girlfriend with no effort; Unscrupulous and defenseless in front of each other; Happy because of each other's happiness, sad because of each other's sadness; She knows my smile, I know her noise, I can share joys and sorrows and be loyal to each other. Sometimes this kind of girlfriend love is similar to love, but it goes beyond love.

I'm sorry,

I have many good friends, but I don't have a best friend, and I haven't said these two words;

Because I found out

"I have always had reservations about her, and she has always been afraid of me;"

"Best friend" is a very precious existence.

May we all become her and meet her.