How to judge whether the other person regards himself as a confidant or a lover?

Many people may think that confidants and lovers have many similarities, especially between the opposite sex. In fact, in the process of growing up, we will meet many friends and confidants, but we will also meet many people who are moved by ourselves. It's just that many times we don't know how to distinguish the two, because sometimes bosom friends and lovers have a lot in common.

For our lover, we just shared a lot with him. He is a very important part of our life. For bosom friends, we have a lot in common, such as our values or other personality characteristics, and then there will be many topics. It may be that in the face of such a person who has a good impression on himself, sometimes he can't tell what love is and what is pure friendship.

But no matter how good a confidant is, after all, he belongs to his own friend, and he is not at the same level as his lover. So when judging whether a person is his confidant or his favorite lover. If you just think that you have a lot of topics with him, and then two people are happier together, or they may be in tune in many times, then this is the composition of intimate friends between two people, and maybe more two people are more suitable to be such intimate friends.

It is when you have a feeling that you want to spend a lot of time sharing a lot of life with this person. Your imagination of him is that your future may be more than just such a friend relationship. At this time, in fact, at the end of the lover, you will have more thoughts on such an object. So there is still a big difference between lovers and confidants. They can be their lovers, but lovers are not just their confidants. You need to know what kind of state you want more in your heart. In order to find the one that suits you.