What is the definition of first love?

First love, as its name implies, refers to the initial part of human love germination. It can also be said that it is the first time that people have tasted "love", which is not necessarily true love.

For example, if a person likes another person, ta doesn't have to love ta, but ta's love for ta is unique and can't be easily replaced by others. The occurrence of first love has nothing to do with age, and both teenagers and the elderly may have first love.

social influence

The key to solving contradictions lies in the correct education and guidance of families and schools, parents and teachers. First of all, parents and teachers are required to have a correct understanding of the first love of boys and girls. Seeking friends is a common psychological feature of boys and girls, and it is both "perceptual" and "rational" phenomenon caused by physical and psychological development. Therefore, just because boys and girls have a little contact or frequent contact, they can't be considered to have sexual relations, and they can't be ridiculed as promiscuity and indecent.

Psychologists believe that first love is a sign of maturity. They say that students between the ages of 12 and 14 begin to enter adolescence, which is the maturity of students. The emergence of secondary sexual characteristics has promoted the psychological changes of students, and the desire to seek friendship and approach the opposite sex is budding and developing, which should be said to be gratifying. With this understanding, teachers and parents can give students correct guidance.