How to ask the name of a person with high emotional intelligence

In general, if you ask the other person's name, you should be added, which will show more significant respect to the other person. Then in order to show sincerity, you can give your name first, and be modest and generous when asking. Such as: hello, my name is xxx；; May I ask your name or: hello, my name is xxx；; Can you tell me your name?

Of course, if you strike up a conversation with a girl, you can directly say the girl's name with the opening remarks: my name is xxx. Nice to meet you. Then she will definitely take the initiative to say her name. Or you look like my friend. What's your name?

Chatting method with high emotional intelligence

1, remember the other person's name and position, even unfamiliar people, when talking to unfamiliar people, adding the other person's name in front is more cordial than not adding the name; Familiar people use nicknames to be more intimate than their real names.

2. Minimize "monologues" or long speeches. Once the voice falls, it is easy to cause silence and embarrassment on both sides.

3. One of the ways to make a person less psychologically prepared for you is to expose his own shortcomings properly. There is a "make a fool of yourself effect" in psychology, that is, people subconsciously prefer people with a little shortcomings. So when you expose some insignificant shortcomings, you can make the other person more relaxed, and at the same time, it will be easy to think that you are trustworthy and open your heart to you.

4. During the conversation, nod your head, look into each other's eyes, show your approval and listen patiently.

5. To win someone's favor quickly, repeat his actions in the conversation. For example, if the other person drinks water, you also drink water; When the other person nods, you nod. People will feel better about people and behaviors similar to themselves.