Which is better, Xiaofa or BFF? Why is it easy for boyfriends to be with girlfriends?

There was a crazy saying on the internet before: fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriends prevention.

In this way, girls are warned not to introduce their boyfriends to their girlfriends, because their three views, appreciation level and vision are relatively close. Once your girlfriend and boyfriend meet, you are likely to be out in the end.

Life is sometimes like a mirror, reflecting the five flavors of life and the world. Sometimes, the person you trust most will "betray" you in the end? Girlfriends have existed since ancient times. The full name of boudoir is girlfriends, and women grow up.

In fact, it's not just girlfriends who have feelings for boyfriends, but boyfriends also have feelings for girlfriends. For a love rat, loving everyone is love. One is too little, two are just right, and three are not much, which just adds up to a table of mahjong.

Sasha recently encountered a problem. Sasha has a best friend named Zhou Xiao. They have been alumni from junior high school to university and have a good relationship. They were inseparable all the time. Even if Zhou Xiao later has a boyfriend, they are often together, but there will be a boy next to them.

Many times, they will eat together and watch movies together. After a long time, Sasha and Zhou Xiao's boyfriend became closer and closer, and Zhou Xiao's boyfriend became more and more concerned about Sasha. He often buys one for Sasha when he buys breakfast for Zhou Xiao. Sasha didn't feel very good at first, but later he saw that his girlfriend agreed with it, so he didn't say anything. However, what she didn't expect was that one day she suddenly received a message from Zhou Xiao's boyfriend: "Sasha, I found that I like you more and more. I think we have more common topics. Zhou Xiao doesn't really understand me. Would you like to stay with me? "

Sasha looked at the message with a puzzled face and didn't know what to do. In her heart, Zhou Xiao and her feelings are more important than any man. Besides, Zhou Xiao's boyfriend is not his type. Sasha wanted to tell her best friend at the first time, but on second thought, she was afraid that her best friend would misunderstand her. Zhou Xiao and her boyfriend have always had a good relationship. She often looks forward to the life of marrying her boyfriend with Sasha. Facing Zhou Xiao who looked at her boyfriend wholeheartedly, Sasha didn't know.

We can rationally analyze this matter:

Zhou Xiao's boyfriend is a man of bad conduct.

While maintaining a relationship with Zhou Xiao, Zhou Xiao's boyfriend freely confessed to Zhou Xiao's best friend. He didn't think about his girlfriend's feelings, and he didn't think about how this behavior would affect the feelings of Zhou Xiao and Sasha. This kind of person can be defined as love rat.

Sasha had better reject him directly and don't give him any chance.

When Sasha has no feelings for Zhou Xiao's boyfriend, she should directly reject Zhou Xiao's boyfriend's so-called "liking", because once you leave any room for this love rat, he is likely to pester you.

Love rat's words can't be easily believed.

While maintaining a relationship with his current girlfriend Zhou Xiao, he said that he likes Sasha. Such a man is not sincere. If he really likes you, he won't talk to his girlfriend if he has someone. Such a man, the truth of what he said must be greatly reduced.

Trusting the personal feelings between girlfriends should help girlfriends end love rat's injury.

If you think your relationship with your best friend can go beyond that between men and women, then leave evidence to tell your best friend directly, because first, Sasha didn't do anything inappropriate for Zhou Xiao's boyfriend;

Second, Zhou Xiao's boyfriend is love rat, and Zhou Xiao will only be hurt if he is with him. As a best friend, if you tell her the truth, she will definitely make the right choice.

Don't trust the feelings between girlfriends, try to stay away from them.

If your relationship is average, you tell her that she may think you are hooking up with her boyfriend; If you don't tell her, she will still think you are hooking up with her boyfriend; Even some people, if you tell her that her boyfriend is a playboy, she will think that you are provocative and jealous. In these three cases, you can stay as far away from them as possible to avoid getting fish all over your body.

There are too many similar things in this world. In the face of people who are unfaithful to their feelings, refuse them directly and don't dance with them. No matter what others do, we must first be ourselves. Only when we are serious about our feelings will we attract similar people.

Please pay attention to your sisters. Boyfriend doesn't want to show it off. Are you sure you can take it out and bring it back?

If not, then don't take it out. Although the girlfriend is good, the love you want is selfish in nature, even if it is a girlfriend. In short, it is right for boyfriends and girlfriends to keep their distance.

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