Wang Yangming learned 20 sentences of mind, which were easy to understand but influenced several times. what do you think?

Wang Yangming said that in order to survive, people will inevitably pursue something that can make them feel safe, such as money, reputation and status. But some people pursue these things under the guidance of "conscience", while others just pursue foreign things wholeheartedly. If our mind keeps staring at those foreign objects, we will be exhausted.

The greatest beauty of psychology is that we can pursue external things under the condition of physical and mental pleasure, and we can pursue anything as long as we can take conscience as the guide.

Therefore, Wang Yangming's theory of mind is not only a magic weapon for our physical and mental practice, but also a panacea for solving life problems. In particular, the following 20 kinds of true wisdom are directly related to real life.

1, doing things is the most reliable way.

People must sharpen their minds about things in order to stand up and "settle down quietly."

General idea: Only by experiencing various things can people hone themselves and gain a firm foothold and reach the realm of "moving is static, static is static".

Feeling: Wang Yangming told us that doing things after China's entry into WTO is the best way to practice in life. Because if you are restless and anxious, these restlessness will be fully aroused when you do things. If you want to do things well, you must try your best to calm your heart and resist your sexuality. And this is the best exercise for the soul.

2, get along with friends, know how to be modest is very important.

When dealing with friends, business will benefit you and business will make you lose.

General idea: get along with friends and be humble to each other, and you will benefit; Comparing with each other can only hurt.

Feelings: Everyone is selfish and cares about their own interests. Everyone's efforts need to be rewarded. This is human nature. Therefore, based on mutual humility between friends, not only will everyone's interests not be damaged, but both sides can also gain greater benefits from mutual assistance and mutual benefit. The friendship between two people will grow deeper and deeper.

The more you don't want to read, the more you have to bite the bullet and read.

If you feel disturbed during the day, just sit still. If you feel lazy about reading, go ahead and read. Yes, it is also because of illness.

General idea: If you feel fidgety when practicing kung fu during the day, then sit still. Even if you don't want to read, you must read. This is the right medicine and a method.

Feeling: A superficial and impetuous heart will always run to comfort instinctively. The more comfortable you are, the less you will grow and mature, and even more superficial and impetuous. Therefore, to reverse this situation, we must go against our temper. The more you don't want to do anything, the more you have to be patient. This is precisely the tempering of one's own mind.

4. Don't leave any selfishness.

Self-denial needs to be swept away and nothing can be left. If you have a dime, all evil will follow.

To restrain yourself, you must thoroughly clean up your selfish desires. Only when you have no selfish desires can you be considered. If there is a little selfish desire, many evil thoughts will follow.

Feeling: to restrain oneself is to build a dam for one's rampant selfish desires, which is bound to be impregnable and watertight. If you keep a little selfish desire, it is like opening a hole in the dam, which will easily lead to the dam breaking. Because at this time, your whole heart is still dominated by desire, just lurking down. Therefore, self-denial and self-cultivation cannot be compromised.

Regret is the best medicine in life.

Repentance is a good medicine for treating diseases, but another one is more expensive. If you stay in the middle, you will get sick again because of the medicine.

Repentance is a good medicine for treating diseases, and it is important to correct it. If you keep your regrets in your heart, you are ill because of medicine.

Feeling: People are not sages, which is right and which is wrong? Admitting a mistake is half corrected. This is the normal state of life, very common. Therefore, first, we should know how to repent, second, we should know how to correct, and third, we should not hide our regrets in our hearts. This is the complete growth process.

6, work and life are hectic, all because of gains and losses.

All patients who get along well and badly, as well as those who suffer from loss and gain, are led by fame and loss, and can't really lead their own conscience.

General idea: When dealing with things, there are good and bad situations, accompanied by the disadvantages of disorder, all of which are caused by the heart of discrediting gains and losses, and can not really gain one's conscience.

Feeling: In today's society, many people are in a hurry in their work and life. The busier they are, the more chaotic they are, making things a mess, which is embarrassing and embarrassing. Why is this happening?

Wang Yangming hit the nail on the head-that's just because your heart of gain and loss is too heavy, you just want good results, and you are afraid of bad results, so you have blinded your heart that could have been calm and peaceful. Ups and downs are the norm, and it is a reasonable attitude to do your best and let nature take its course.

7. Running away is never a good idea.

It is beneficial for people to hone their skills in things. If you have to be quiet, you will be chaotic when you encounter something and will never make progress. When it was quiet, kung fu was as bad as convergence, but it was actually drowning.

General idea: one should hone in things, and it will be helpful to study hard in things. If you only love silence, you will be flustered and never make progress. Static kung fu, on the surface, is convergence, but in fact it is indulgence.

Feeling: Wang Yangming's situation, now called "escape", is far from calm, so Wang Yangming says that "indulgence" has to be faced, and people have to grind on things, and escape will never have a future.

8. Blame your friends less and encourage them more.

Generally speaking, a friend should criticize and point out less things, and seduce, reward and persuade more. This is the only way.

Get along with friends, less persuasion and criticism, more enlightenment and encouragement, is the right way.

Feeling: when a friend makes a mistake or encounters difficulties, he is very annoyed and painful. It's useless to persuade, and the accusation is even worse. Nothing more than hurting friends and destroying friendship. Only enlightenment and encouragement are the most affectionate and just practices, and they are really useful to friends. As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. What Wang Yangming tells us is the way to make friends based on human nature and friendship.

9. It is always material desire that blinds the mind.

If there is no harm from material desires, just follow your conscience and use fashion, there is nothing wrong with that. But in ordinary people, most of them are materialistic and unable to follow their conscience.

If there is no material desire, only conscience is at work, then Tao is everywhere. But most ordinary people are blinded by material desires and cannot follow their conscience.

Feeling: The "conscience" in Wang Yangming's mouth is equivalent to "initial heart". Everyone has a true heart. Wang Yangming told us why most people can't keep their true heart, just because of the blindness of material desires.

In today's era, this is particularly worthy of attention. The deceived heart, such as the meaning of the word "deceived", is dark and confused. Even if you get more, what's the use? Only when the heart is presented can it be clear, relaxed and comfortable.