How to tell whether this person is true love or just possessive?

Want to distinguish between you and him is really love you or possessive, you can through the following methods:

First: if it is because of possessiveness, you may be attracted by appearance and sex. If it is true love, you may be interested in him. If you just want to sleep with her, you may not want to talk to him or get to know him. The other person is not interested just because he wants to have sex with her.

Second, have you ever thought about developing a long-term relationship? If it is true love, you will definitely think about the possibility of a long-term relationship with him. Understand the advantages and disadvantages of both sides and choose tolerance. If you don't care about each other's shortcomings at all, you may not love each other.

Third, are you willing to participate in various activities with each other? If it is true love, you may be willing to take part in many activities with him, such as swimming, diving, boxing, picnicking, traveling, camping, yoga, sports, running, fishing and bungee jumping, but if it is just possessive. You may not want to engage in activities other than sex with him.

Fourth, have you talked to her about your views on this relationship? If it's true love, what you want is a long-term relationship. You may want to be honest with each other. What do you think of this relationship? Do you want to be with him? Or what's your bottom line? When do you hope to solve this problem? How do you want your relationship to develop, etc., you will exchange some views on something, and you will want to reach an agreement with him on something. You will exchange answers to some questions with him, such as: I can't stand you seeing your ex-girlfriend again if we are together. But if you just want to possess the other person, you may not think so many questions, and when the other person wants to exchange answers with you, you may perfunctory him instead of answering them seriously.