Divorced, my ex-wife said: not wanting to see me will only make me more sad. When I saw her, she was afraid that she would cry. What is she thinking?

1, she still has deep feelings for you, but she can't live together normally. Feelings are still there, she can only face to face, there is no intersection.

Maybe you did something that violated her bottom line, and she can't forgive you.

Maybe she is in trouble and has to leave you. Leaving you may be good for you and your family. For example, she is terminally ill. In order not to drag you down, she chooses to divorce you and let you find new happiness.