What causes the child's bad personality?

Capricious, grumpy, often disobedient, possessive, selfish, jealous, and fond of robbing others; Behavior has no purpose, can't concentrate, can't coordinate the activities of both hands, and things in his hand often fall to the ground, which is Mao Mao's mania; Love fantasy, often make a hullabaloo about, difficult to calm down, like to disturb and make fun of others, unfriendly to weak children or small animals.

Passive, negative, lazy, lazy; Like to cry for help, like to rely on adults; I hope others please me, I am easily excited and afraid of many things. Often lie and like to steal things; Usually fool some psychological physical problems, such as refusing to eat, loss of appetite, digestive problems; Often have nightmares, fear of the dark, poor sleep, and some even anemia. In reality, there are many children with personality defects, but they do not show all the above characteristics, perhaps only some of them.

Although the baby may be attracted by the sudden reaction of his parents and stop crying, after a long time, he will gradually feel that as long as he is not satisfied, he can solve the problem by violence. Then when children go to kindergarten or elementary school, they are likely to develop an arrogant character.

For infants and young children, it is normal to walk and wrestle, eat without a spoon and wear no clothes and shoes. What parents should do is to encourage their baby and help him learn and master these skills, instead of helping him do everything well, so that the child will never grow up.

If parents lend a helping hand to many things that babies can do, they will not only fail to master basic life skills, but also easily develop the bad habit of relying too much on others and gradually become an independent person.

Many children are naturally introverted and shy. When they met strangers, they were too nervous to speak. They are withdrawn and don't like to communicate with others, which is what we call unsociable.

This introverted child can't calm himself down for a long time with a little mood fluctuation. This kind of children have emotional anxiety, and it is difficult to accept the new living environment for a while after going to kindergarten, and even have resistance to kindergarten teachers and children, or food.

The relationship between parents in the family also has a very important influence on the child's personality. Many visitors can see that if the relationship between parents is not very good since childhood, visitors tend to be overly mature and sensible, because if the father does not take good care of his mother, the child will automatically take care of his mother instead of his father, making the child appear precocious when he should be naive, and neglecting his own feelings because he is too considerate of others' feelings. Many people will feel distressed for precocious children.

When children are old enough to leave home and come into contact with school, the communication style of peers and the influence of teachers are particularly important. Whether a teacher asks students to obey absolutely or knows how to influence and encourage children to explore properly will have great influence. The former will make students afraid to express their opinions and become insecure, while the latter will make students have considerable confidence in their ability and performance.