Am I helping someone else raise a wife? The fortune-teller said I wouldn't survive until I was 25.

If you believe it, you will have it. If you don't believe it, there won't be one. Don't rely on fortune tellers. Think about it. Because an irrelevant fortune teller affects your life, is it worth it? Destiny is in your own hands, you have to create it by yourself! Don't think of talking about friends as helping others raise their wives. This is mutual. You are very happy together, and you have to pay the price. Two people are not one-sided!