shilly-shally

Indecision cannot be said to have no advantage, but it is not obvious. A person can be good-natured, polite and cultured, but not indecisive. No matter how big or small, he must be cruel when facing the choice! Give it up, that's all! You can't have your cake and eat it. Indecisive people, to put it bluntly, are cowardly and confident, and dare not break the established life. Some people are obviously dissatisfied with reality and dare not try to choose another way of life. They just think that they are always passive Nuo Nuo, trampled by life, that is to say, they are stingy and greedy, and they don't keep the heaven.

For example, in love, some people are really unhappy in their actual marriage, but they dare not divorce. They may be unhappy until they are old. In fact, such people send two words "deserved it"! I'm afraid what I'm looking for is not good for my children, and what I'm afraid of is not as good as the original one. I dare say that if I think so, he won't find a good woman willing to marry him. No one likes a man to treat her like a wolf. Of course, in the same way, women will find men. Choose a person, you must trust him, otherwise don't choose him! Why should everyone be a family, but they are so far apart!

Some entrepreneurs are always hesitant, afraid of this and that, and the most important thing is to be afraid of compensation. If you ask me, no one can guarantee that you will only make money without losing money. If your peers are different, it doesn't mean that you will make money. Conversely, just because others make money doesn't mean you will make money. There must be risks, and high returns and high risks are directly proportional. You still want to make a lot of money comfortably, will God give it to you? Then you can't be good!

When I opened a small shop two years ago, I noticed that there are two obvious categories for children to buy things. First, they are decisive, see if they like it or not, and start at once; Second, indecision, pick up and put down, make a choice syndrome. Of course, there are people who make choices after a little hesitation, which is not bad. It's the kind of person who hates iron and doesn't produce steel. It can be said that this kind of child will not do anything fast in the future, from shopping to choosing a spouse. There are too many choices in life, and it is always difficult to succeed. Because indecision doesn't mean you think rationally, it just means that you are too young to be responsible for your choices and afraid to take responsibility. Live a cowardly life and can't be your own master.

Be a man, don't be indecisive! By the way, learn an English word, vacillating.