What does it mean to have a little girl in a big kettle?

The customs of Shangyou Creek and Xiayou Creek are different. Shangyouxi prefers Minnan dialect and Hakka dialect, while Xiayouxi prefers Fuzhou. The main marriage: in feudal society, the marriage of Youxi people was arranged by their parents, and they got married after discussing their engagement. Generally, marriage proposals are sent to men and women through matchmakers. After receiving the woman's post, the man asked the "fortune teller" to get married, and then asked the woman to make a list of dowry proposals.