How can I make myself not impetuous?

Let yourself not be impetuous. I listed the following behaviors. I hope you can try to change them.

1, don't always complain. Everyone has worldly desires, and it is inevitable that there will be unhappy times. Therefore, an occasional complaint or two will get sympathy and comfort from others. But if you are a person who complains all day, let others think that you are "too resistant to things", especially for men, which is a big taboo for being a man. Many people describe some generals or experts sitting there as steady as Mount Tai, never changing their faces when things happen. People who complain all day long always have a "miserable face" on their faces. In fact, what you meet, others will meet. These are very simple things. If you can't handle such a simple thing well, how can you talk about doing "big things"?

2. Learn to persist and endure. Impetuousness means that you have no patience. You can't persist in doing anything. This is a very important feature of impetuous mood. Chatting with a friend of mine who is doing HR, I asked him, "What kind of resume will you approve immediately?" He replied: "I found that some people have worked in several companies in their resumes, but those who have worked for less than half a year will pass immediately!" The reason he gave me was also very simple: "Although some enterprises are indeed harsh on job seekers and put forward various harsh conditions to try to stop young people who want to work, you must never doubt the attitude of most enterprises in seeking talents. The leader of every enterprise doesn't want his employees to be like iron soldiers. Although it is true at present. It's hard to guarantee that a person who has repeatedly jumped ship in other places is not going through the motions here. Since we have reached a labor service agreement with the enterprise, we should fulfill our obligations. Unless there are special reasons, it is difficult for people who want to leave easily, but I don't understand that you don't know enough about yourself at present, including your job (do you think the salary is low or the work is hard). . . ), how can a person who doesn't even know himself do it well? " Lao Liu's blog post "The World" tells the same truth. Therefore, I suggest that you must be careful when choosing a job, or don't do it. If you decide to do it, you must learn to persist and endure.

3, learn to persist and endure (work) It is difficult to trust a person, and it is easy to distrust a person. Some people say that my boss always ignores me because I am brilliant. The problem is that it is difficult to trust and easy to distrust. For example. Suppose you have an appointment with someone to meet in Xitu, Beijing at 9: 00 tomorrow morning to buy books together. As a result, the man came at 9: 30, giving you such a reason: "Sorry, a friend of mine was hospitalized, so he came late!" " "Well, let's analyze it. I wrote this reason for a reason. Because this reason obviously seems deceptive. Since your friend is in hospital for such a big thing, according to the logic of ordinary people, you should go to the hospital to accompany or take care of him or her, at least depending on the situation. How can I go to an appointment to buy books? So whether this reason is true or not comes from the person you associate with. If your hair is small and ferromagnetic (good friend), I guess you will basically believe him. If you are just an ordinary friend, I don't think you will believe him. It takes a long time to trust someone. As the saying goes, Ma Quan has a long-term view and will know it for a long time. between people