I always feel that some leaders like me, and I don't know if it's romantic.

Hello, I don't need to dwell too much on this question, because your leader is married and has children. I can feel that you care about your leader, so you care about his attitude towards you. Just because he doesn't refuse to chat outside of work hours, and he doesn't refuse to be cute to him, doesn't mean he has a good impression on you. It is normal to arrange work in a commanding tone, because he is the leader. You are angry because you didn't put yourself in a subordinate position. He scolded you and then sent you a message, perhaps just to ease the tension. For you, don't think much, just do your job! At work, you and he are leaders and subordinates. Only in this way can you stay.