How should grandparents educate their grandchildren?

There are too many ordinary people who can't afford two suites. It is a family tradition that parents live with their children and grandchildren, and it is also the current social situation. Children work hard to support their families, not only to do housework for the elderly, but also to bear the responsibility of raising children for the elderly. According to the sampling survey of authoritative organizations, more than 70% of young parents now entrust their children to the elderly at home, while less than 30% are raised by their parents. The elderly separated from each other have become the main force to take care of their children. I have to take care of my children's lives and educate my grandchildren's studies. This leads to a question: how did ancestors correctly educate their children and grandchildren?

Grandparents' education of grandchildren can focus on the ideological level. Grandparents have experienced the vicissitudes of life and accumulated rich life experience and wisdom. Their understanding of life is deeper and more authoritative. A nation has traditions, and so does a family. I passed on my life wisdom and spiritual wealth summed up in my life to my grandchildren. They learned lessons from the life experiences and lessons of their ancestors and carried forward their good spirit and work style, which means that standing on the shoulders of their ancestors, life has a higher starting point.

Grandchildren inherit the psychological genes of their predecessors, and their emotional world often has similar experiences of their parents and grandparents. Therefore, the inheritance of his life experience is all-inclusive for his descendants, which is irreplaceable by social education and school education.

In modern society, people are impetuous, many excellent traditional morals are gradually disappearing, and some social atmosphere of quick success and flashiness is affecting our children. Grandparents tell their grandchildren about their feelings about home and country, the spirit of hard struggle and the virtue of thrift. It is even more commendable.

However, grandparents also have shortcomings that need to be overcome when raising grandchildren. As the saying goes, old people have a sense of security and a relative, so they will love their grandchildren more. Without the psychology of enlarging the boundary, it is easy for the elderly to spoil and indulge their grandchildren. Drowning a child is like hurting a child. There are too many such lessons in real life. Before the age of 6, the grandson is a crucial period for intellectual development, all kinds of abilities, good habits and character cultivation. Old people's obedience and endless doting on their grandchildren will make them feel dependent, which will hinder the development of children's independence and sound personality over time. Therefore, grandparents should overcome their irrational doting on their grandchildren and be "cruel". Of course, this is not the traditional educational concept of "filial sons are born under the stick", but let children do what they can, and grandchildren should correct their mistakes in time. So as to cultivate grandchildren's independence and sense of responsibility, and enhance children's self-care ability and self-confidence.

Children and old people live in different times and have different ideas, especially children with higher education have modern ideas that their parents don't have. On the issue of educating grandchildren, there are contradictions between the two. In addition, now is the information age, and grandchildren have seen a lot since childhood, and some contents and methods of educating grandchildren by the elderly are out of date. Therefore, grandparents should also keep pace with the times and learn more about the knowledge and experience of educating the next generation by reading books and attending various lectures. We should discuss with young people more and listen to their opinions. Parents and grandparents must agree on the contents and methods of educating their grandchildren. On the issue of educating grandchildren, the protagonist is their parents. As long as parents are here, grandparents will let go. Sometimes parents are too hasty and strict with their children. Grandparents can communicate behind their backs and remind them not to correct them in person.