Every time I give my child to my mother or mother-in-law, I always feel uneasy. How can I relieve it?

Now, grandparents generally spoil their grandchildren. Because there are usually not many family members. Just one or two. If you don't love them, who will you give them? So if your mother-in-law takes care of the children, I will be very uneasy. First, it's too spoiled. Let children cultivate bad habits from an early age. Will become more arrogant. When you grow up, you will be more unscrupulous. This is the first reason why mothers don't trust their mother-in-law.

Second, it is more traditional for a mother-in-law to take care of her children. Because the older generation likes to believe in superstition, as long as children have a little problem, they like to tell their fortune by their birthdays. When a child is ill, he thinks it is evil. Generally, our mother's child is ill, so we will take the child to the hospital for examination as soon as possible. And now it is 2 1 century. 2 1 century Not many people will go to fortune telling. Because we don't believe in life at all. Only believe in science. Because my mother-in-law may not know much about science. So we use the same method.

Moreover, it is easy for mother-in-law to spoil bad children with their children. If the child doesn't eat well. Children's grandmothers like to give their children snacks. It doesn't matter once or twice. But over time, if it is regular, it will lead to malnutrition in children. Now grandparents will be totally dependent on their grandchildren. As long as they like it, grandparents will buy it for them immediately, so that children will get used to spending money lavishly when they grow up. If children don't like vegetables, grandma won't pay so much attention to their diet. Like to eat fish. Children's grandparents will also have children who only eat fish and don't eat vegetables. Therefore, there is no balance in diet. It's normal for mothers to be uneasy about their children being with grandparents. So if you want to balance this kind of psychology yourself, you'd better bring it yourself.