My father-in-law is ill.

My father-in-law was ill and had a sudden cerebral infarction. After the doctor's rescue, he was out of danger, but half of his body was in a coma, unable to speak and incontinent.

My father-in-law is 82 years old. It has been more than thirty years since I met him. I have hardly heard that he is ill and has been very healthy. Just a few days before I got sick, I rode an electric tricycle and took my mother-in-law to the market.

My parents-in-law live in the country, 30 kilometers away from us. I kept asking them to live in the city with us, but he refused because he was not used to it. Seeing that they were all in good health, we didn't insist.

At one o'clock that afternoon, I received a phone call from my father-in-law's neighbor, saying that my father-in-law had fallen and was unconscious now. My wife and I immediately took a taxi and flew to the countryside to take him to the county hospital. After examination, the doctor asked him about the onset time and suggested that we take him to the city hospital for "thrombolysis" immediately, saying that it might be better. We followed the ambulance to the city hospital without hesitation.

At this point, my father-in-law was already in a deep coma. The attending physician organized the medical staff to rescue him and talked with us about the operation plan.

"The patient's condition is very serious. The best time to do thrombolytic surgery is within six hours of onset. Cut a bite from the root of the thigh and insert a tube ... The cost of the operation is about 65 thousand ... Considering the age of the patient, the operation is still risky. According to your description, there is still one hour before the best operation time. Well, do you think it over, sign it quickly and operate immediately ... "

My wife and I followed the doctor, and the doctor took my father-in-law for a comprehensive preoperative examination: CT and MRI. ...

At this time, we were so confused that we could hardly hear what the doctor said. We just keep repeating "OK, OK!"

Everything was ready, the operation was about to begin, and we were "invited" out of the operating room by the doctor. ...

Suddenly there was a doctor's scream in the operating room:

"The old man is awake!"

"The old man is going to get up!"

"Don't move, I'll operate on you right away!"

My wife and I pushed open the door of the operating room. I saw my father-in-law get up from the operating table trembling. My wife came forward and hugged him: "Dad, don't move, you will have an operation soon, and you will be fine after the operation."

The old man who was in a deep coma just now doesn't know where he got that power. He got up from the operating table, shook off his son's hand, shook off the doctor's hand, and landed on his feet-his paralyzed right leg magically moved strongly, and with his active left leg, he rushed to the door of the operating room. ...

My wife and I immediately caught up with the old man. The old man ran for about 30 meters and then fell to the ground. We hugged the old man and begged him for surgery.

My wife knelt in front of the old man and pulled him to cry: "Dad, I know you can't afford the operation fee of 65 thousand." My son is rich. As long as you take good care of your illness, it doesn't matter how much you spend. "

The old man collapsed on the ground and said in vague language, "Go home! Go home! "

At this time, the medical staff also gathered around, and they came forward together, trying to pull the old man up and send him back to the operating room, but everything was in vain-my father-in-law squatted back and refused to go to the operating table anyway.

Time goes by minute by minute, and after the old man's tossing, he has missed the best opportunity for surgery. The attending doctor spoke at this time: "It should be more than six hours since the old man was able to move his legs and feet. Thrombolytic surgery is of little significance. Give up surgery. " He says so, but the meaning of shaking his head contains a lot of helplessness.

Finally decided to give up the operation.

When the old man heard that the operation was not going on, he took a long breath and seemed to have a smile on his face. His face darkened at once and he fainted again. ...

We immediately carried him into the ward and woke up five days later. It's been almost twenty days now, and the old man's condition has hardly improved.

My mother-in-law is blind and can't see the world clearly all her life. My father-in-law was ill that day, and my mother-in-law said it was more than twelve o'clock. Now I don't think it's twelve o'clock, because my mother-in-law found my father-in-law speechless at twelve o'clock, and before that, he must have been ill, but she didn't know it was a sign of a cerebral infarction and her mother-in-law couldn't see it.

My wife and I both blame ourselves. We should have put them on our side a long time ago. At least at the beginning of his illness, we can realize that his father-in-law's illness will not be so serious.

Parents-in-law means pregnant. My father-in-law was born at six. She was born with different eyes, and it was not until decades later that she found the root cause-congenital glaucoma. My father-in-law has always disapproved of this arranged marriage. He rebelled against his father, but he could not resist your majesty after all.

On the wedding day, my father-in-law ran away But three days later, I was discovered by my family and had to admit this extremely reluctant marriage.

Although the mother-in-law can't see, she is very kind and hardworking. She doesn't like her father-in-law, but she just puts up with it silently and dares not complain at all. She feels that her eyes are bad, she is thin and small, and she is not worthy of a handsome and tall father-in-law. Only by influencing her father-in-law with her own actions, she believes that maybe one day her father-in-law will accept her. In her father-in-law's big family, she does everything, never says much, but smiles and answers her father-in-law's cold words.

Year after year, she finally influenced her father-in-law with her own actions and gradually accepted her mother-in-law. In the sixth year of marriage, I gave birth to a lover.

After having children, two hearts are getting closer and closer. My father-in-law often says, "I am your eyes." My father-in-law always holds her mother's hand wherever she goes. In my father-in-law's hometown, people always see a tall man holding a thin woman's hand, walking on the ridge, walking in front of the house and walking in the market. ...

They loved each other all their lives, and their stories were widely circulated in the local area.

My parents-in-law only gave birth to one child, and my wife went out to study in her teens. Everything in the family is my father-in-law. He became a production captain in his twenties and worked for decades. He is a good man from all over the country. He is always asked to solve any difficulties and family conflicts.

For decades, he has been keen on studying the Book of Changes. Help the villagers see the foundation of the house, lay the foundation for the new house, show the days to the newlyweds, bridge the broken marriage in the form of fortune telling, and show the dead people the feng shui of burial ... but he never collects money. I often laugh at him and say that he is a charlatan. He always laughs: "You don't understand, this is a good thing."

Since he is ill, he knows nothing. I went to ask the doctor later: "Why can a patient in a deep coma suddenly get up from the operating table and run 30 meters?"

The attending physician said: "It is difficult to explain from a medical point of view. Perhaps it is his tenacious perseverance and love for his son. "

The doctor's words inspired me. Yes, my father-in-law told us more than once: "If I get seriously ill, I will never drag my son down."

The old man is very ill now, and almost all relatives let us take him home and let him die slowly at home.

But my wife and I strongly oppose it. We insist that the elderly be treated in the hospital. We even think it's worth letting him live one more day. We all feel guilty for the old man. If we had brought him to live with us earlier, we wouldn't have been so ill.

My parents-in-law are very loving all their lives. They have been married for more than 60 years and have hardly been separated. Mother-in-law thinks about her sick father-in-law every day and recites the scriptures, but her eyes can't see. It's really inconvenient to take her to the city hospital.

A few days later, in order to facilitate the two old people to meet and take care of the blind mother-in-law, we transferred our father-in-law to our county people's hospital for further treatment.

After more than twenty days of treatment, nursing and rehabilitation, he gradually got some vague consciousness. Sometimes when I hold his hand, he will hold it hard. I know he thanked me for not giving up on him.

My wife and I have given up everything now and want to do our best to accompany the old man through life.

The doctor said that my father-in-law's IQ is similar to that of an eight-month-old baby. My mother-in-law sits beside him every day and tells him about the past, trying to arouse his memory. My mother-in-law's words often make me cry. I really saw the scene of their love on TV.

Now we must turn him over every two hours and wipe him every four hours. But the hardest thing is to treat him with urine and urine.

My father-in-law has always been in good health and eats a lot. Although I am unconscious after illness, I still have to eat a lot of porridge and rice and urinate a lot.

I changed his diaper when he was a little conscious. Embarrassed, he blocked his lower body with his hand and wouldn't let me change. I took his hand and said to him gently, "If you can have a son, you can have a daughter-in-law. You only have one son, and I am your daughter. Grandma can't see, how can my son always be by your side? I won't change it for you. Who will change it for you? "

He slowly released his hand, and I could clearly see the tears in his eyes.

I treated his stool that day, scrubbed him clean, and went to get him a diaper to change. But when he turned around, he pulled again, grabbed it with his hand and touched it on his head and face.

Look at his head, face, pillow, sheets, quilt, shit everywhere. Looking at this tall old man weighing 170 kilograms, I didn't know how to tidy up for a while and couldn't help crying.

He saw me crying, just like a pupil who did something wrong, staring at me stupefied. He didn't understand what he had done wrong.

I vomited that day and couldn't eat for a day. My mother-in-law felt very distressed, groped and patted me, and said sorry to me, "Thank you, because my eyes can't see, and I should share everything with you!" "

What my mother-in-law said embarrassed me. After that, I will deal with my father-in-law's defecation, so I will try to restrain myself and try not to make a sound even if I want to vomit. I'm afraid my mother-in-law will be sad after listening.

My wife has been hospitalized for more than 20 days every night and lost weight. When my father-in-law is sober, he will sigh when he looks at his son. The wife comforted her father-in-law: "Dad, it's not easy for you all your life. I have been working outside for so many years. You have taken care of my mother for decades. You're sick. I was right to take care of you. Just rest assured! "

Sometimes my wife is tired and falls asleep beside her father-in-law's bed. Father-in-law put his hand on his son's head and touched it slowly. ...

Every time I see this situation, I can't help crying. I saw a loving father and a filial son.

Yes, you grew up with me, and I grew old with you. This picture is so warm.

The doctor said to me: the old man has recovered well, but this is only the first step after the long March. In the long days to come, the rehabilitation of the elderly depends not only on drugs, but also on family care and rehabilitation. It's too heavy for you two to take care of a paraplegic old man in his eighties.

I told my wife to find a nurse. The wife resolutely refused: "I would rather suffer by myself. I can't let my old father be wronged. He may be dying in this world. I want him to go with peace of mind and let himself feel at ease. "

My wife's behavior also touched my children. My son works in a government department. No matter how late it is every day, he will take time to go to the hospital to accompany his grandfather, and sometimes he will help with the urine and urine, and he does not dislike the elderly at all. My son-in-law has just returned from military leave. I went to the hospital to accompany me every night, got up several times a night, and even stayed up all night without complaining.

Because of the old man's illness, I feel that our home is closer, and I feel the value of family ties.

My granddaughter, who just turned six months old, quietly looked at the old man in the video. The daughter-in-law calls her "grandpa", and sometimes the old man can even grin.

The daughter patted her pregnant belly for five months and said to her grandfather, "Grandpa, get better soon. My child needs great-grandfather to take care of it! " " ……

This afternoon, with the help of my son-in-law, my wife put my father-in-law in a wheelchair, pulled my mother-in-law and pushed him out to bask in the sun. Looking at the back of this family embracing each other, my eyes are moist again. ...

My father-in-law is ill, and we may have to take care of him for a long time, and we may encounter many difficulties, but as long as our family is here, we will certainly get through it smoothly, and I believe my father-in-law will get better!

I wish my father-in-law a speedy recovery! I wish the elderly a long life!