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What do you mean by previous marriage?

What do you mean by previous marriage? The specific answer is that many people believe in causal reincarnation. The so-called previous marriage should be that you didn't form it in your previous life, and you owe it. In other words, you had a deep affection in your last life and will meet again in this life! This is just a statement. Have you seen it? An eternal lover, a past marriage, may have been missed. Let's seize the present ~!

What is the meaning of previous marriage? Past life is the result of this life. People got married in the past life, and this life will bear fruit. . .

What was the cause of the marriage between husband and wife in the last life? The karma between husband and wife is not a question of me and two, but a mixture of good and evil, not a simple formula. Love is essentially a combination of will and karma.

Since ancient times, there are many people in the world who praise and admire love. They hope that love can make lovers get married. Romantic and beautiful love stories have made many people cry, such as butterfly lovers in China, Romeo and Juliet in the west and so on. But what is the significance of Buddhism explaining it?

From the Buddhist point of view, love is essentially a combination of' wish' and' karma'. The so-called' willingness' is an active force, which comes from the inner' will'; The so-called "karma" is a passive and involuntary force, but also from the heart, just "unwilling." These two forces will promote the occurrence of love. Of course, there are various reasons in the world, such as tenderness, thoughtfulness, beauty and generosity, understanding, rich family and so on.

As far as "wish" is concerned, if a couple is very loving and wants to continue to be husband and wife in the afterlife, they will make a wish before the Buddha, hoping to be husband and wife again in the afterlife, or even be husband and wife forever. This will appear when the time is right in the future (no matter what people become). Or men and women lovers who love each other deeply in this life, because of war or family opposition, there is no chance to become husband and wife in this life. The two agreed with each other, hoping to become husband and wife again in the next life. Because both of them remember this agreement, when they meet again in reincarnation, they will have a feeling of deja vu and even decide to spend their lives together soon.

There is another situation, because of the kindness of the other party, there is no return, such as saving lives, or helping to pay debts, or saving parents' loved ones, so I am willing to be a cow and a horse in the afterlife as a return. Therefore, because of the desire to be grateful, I may become a wife in the afterlife, willingly and without complaint. This' willingness' will still happen after many generations.

As far as karma is concerned, if a person owes a huge debt, he can't pay it back, although he hasn't paid off the debt until his death (some people deliberately don't pay it back), and then a force will work in the future. In the case of becoming husband and wife, the husband (wife) has a kind of helplessness. Why does his wife (husband) always torture him? He could do nothing but submit to humiliation and bear such pressure, and the two became bitter couples.

And if in the past, originally a husband and wife, the husband abandoned his wife (for example, a new love, or malicious abandonment, or seclusion), causing his wife's disgust, then he may be abandoned by the other half (or tortured to pay off debts) in this life. This' karma' will happen no matter how far the world is, no matter how time and space change, no matter what it becomes.

Because of the interaction between will and karma, as well as the differences in habits, family, education and ideas between them, and the intervention of others, there are different forms between men and women, which also constitutes the love between men and women in the world.

Next, I will discuss the types of husband-wife relationship and provide my personal views for reference.

Types of husband-wife relationship

The types of relationship between husband and wife can be roughly divided into five categories:

First, the loving type: Although two people get along for different reasons, they have formed a good relationship because of their previous lives, which is very loving and difficult to separate. ：

Second, the type of resentment: in the past, a bad relationship was formed. The two people got along, or were cold, or quarreled, or oppressed and hurt, or even killed each other.

Third, the bird's nest type: the relationship between the two is simple, the feelings are dull and unstable, and they may be separated at any time.

4. Stable: In addition to feelings, the relationship between two people is usually guaranteed by other factors, such as career, family and life background, so it is still stable.

5. Group meditation: Apart from good feelings, there are also religious and spiritual reasons.

Causal karmic truth that leads to these types.

First, the type of love

(1) Love between men and women: Both men and women are deeply immersed in lust, which is more than lust. Both sides believe that the only way to express love is to touch honey's body. Modern people have more and more open ideas about love. As long as I like it, why not? Love based on' lust' is easy to happen. These men and women are all debts owed by themselves in the past, and they have long been out of evil ways, so they have deep habits.

(2) Respect each other as guests: steady and harmonious. Because the two sides are mature and stable, they can consider each other and are not self-centered, so there are fewer disputes when they get along. This is love based on maturity. This is > >

What does it mean to get married in a previous life? A marriage in a previous life made this life a relative. Probably. I don't know if it means starting a family or starting a family. Please adopt it.

What is the meaning of previous marriage? An animal's previous life was predestined because of this life, and this life will bear fruit. . .

Some people are doomed to past lives, others are doomed to past lives, and they all have their own destiny.

Wei Gu, a native of the Tang Dynasty, lived in Ling Du and became an orphan as a teenager. As an adult, I wanted to get married as soon as possible, so I entrusted others to propose marriage everywhere, but all failed. In the second year of Yuanhe, in order to visit Qinghe, he stayed in a hotel in the south of Song Dynasty. A guest suggested that Wei Gu propose to the daughter of Sima Pan P in Song Cheng, and make an appointment to meet at the longxing temple gate in the west of the inn the next day.

To show that he was eager to propose, Wei Gu went to the appointed place at dawn the next day, when the moon was still bright. But I saw an old man sitting on the steps of the temple with his back against a cloth bag, reading a bibliography by moonlight. Read his book quietly, it is neither seal script nor Sanskrit, and Gu doesn't know a word.

Gu Wei asked the old man, What book is my father looking for? I have studied hard since I was a child. There are almost no words in the world that I don't know, and I can read western Sanskrit. Only the book that dad wants to read has not been read. What book is it?

The old man said with a smile: This is the book of the underworld, which is naturally invisible to gentlemen. I am the head of the underworld. I am separated from this gentleman by yin and yang, but this is because you came too early today and didn't meet this gentleman here, not because I didn't come at the right time!

Wei Gu turned back and asked the old man, What is the elder responsible for? The old man replied: in charge of the marriage in the world. Wei Gu secretly rejoiced and said to the old man, I was an orphan since I was a child, and I want to get married when I grow up and have children. I asked for marriage for more than ten years, but I couldn't get it. Today, I met a man here to discuss marrying Song Sima's daughter. I don't know if it will work.

The old man said to Wei Gu: No. We shouldn't be together all our lives, although it is unattainable to condescend to marry the daughter of a Tubo family. Sir, your wife has just turned three and won't marry into your family until she is seventeen.

Wei Gu asked, What's in your bag? The old man replied: it is a red rope, which is used to tie the feet of human couples. People are tied with this rope from birth. Whether it is the home of the enemy or the home of the enemy, the disparity between the rich and the poor, or the official world, the red rope is inviolable. A gentleman's feet are tied to others, and it is useless for him to ask for help everywhere.

Wei Gu said: Then where is my wife? What does her family do? The old man replied: Your wife is the daughter of a woman named Chen who sells vegetables in the north of the inn. Wei Gu said, can I see her then? The old man replied: Chen often comes to the market to sell vegetables with her children in her arms. You follow me, and I can show you.

Until dawn, people who agreed with Wei Gu didn't keep the appointment. The old man also rolled up the book and carried the bag. Gu Wei walked into the market with the old man. I happened to meet an old woman who was blind in one eye and held a three-year-old girl in her arms. The old man pointed to the baby girl and said, this is your wife. Wei Gu was very angry and said, Can I kill her? The old man said: this life naturally needs to be eaten, and the elements are expensive. It cannot be killed. Say that finish stealth.

Wei Gu rebuked: The nonsense of the old ghost demon is ridiculous! I come from a scholar-bureaucrat family and should be suitable for marriage. Even if I can't marry a woman after all, I can still climb some beautiful prostitutes. Why marry an ugly girl who is blind and old? So he sharpened a knife and handed it to his slave, saying, You are always capable. If you can help me kill this girl, I will reward you with 10 thousand yuan.

The next day, the slave followed him into the vegetable market with a knife in his sleeve and stabbed him in the crowd. The market was in chaos for a while, and Wei Gu and his servant walked away in the chaos. After leaving the market, Wei Gu asked eagerly, Are you shot? His servant replied that at first I stabbed her in the heart, but unfortunately I only stabbed her in the eyebrows. Later, Wei Gu proposed many times, but all failed.

14 years later, with the help of his father, Wei Gu served in Xiangzhou army, and Wang Tai, the secretariat of Xiangzhou, asked him to be a judge of the special court. The Secretariat appreciated his talent and married his 17-year-old daughter to Wei Gu.

The daughter of the secretariat is virtuous, quiet and beautiful. But she often puts a flower between her eyebrows, and she won't take it off even if she takes a shower. More than a year later, Wei Gu was very surprised ... >>